This is http://www.essayz.com/b0805090.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %RECOGNITIONS ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS CLARIFICATIONS FOCUS 080509 %TRUST TRUSTING BELIEFS VALUES IDEALS GOALS LEADERS 080509 %SOURCES FOCI AUTHORITY AUTHORITIES TEXTS SCRIPTURE 080509 %RULES COMMANDS DEMANDS REGULATIONS PRESCRIPTIONS 080509 %PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS SCRIPS PLAYS DRAMAS 080509 %EMPIRES EMPERORS DOMINEERING BULLIES VIOLENCE EVIL 080509 %REFLEXIVE RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENTS 080509 It is exceedingly dangerous to give any person or group the unilateral power to determine the Focus-of-Trust --- in the absence of the all people having the right and freedom to think and share their own experiences, thoughts, values, ideals and emotions! Be alert! Think! The above is true when the Focus-of-Trust is any of the following: 1. WHOM people Should-Trust, 2. What IDEAS people Should-Trust, 3. What VALUES people Should-Trust, 4. What IDEALS people Should-Trust, 5. What VIRTUES people Should-Trust, 6. What GROUPS people Should-Trust, 7. What Myths people Should-Trust, 8. What Parables people Should-Trust, 9. What Traditions people Should-Trust, 10. What Scriptures people Should-Trust. The issues in all of the above --- pertain to ALL Concentrations of: Wealth, Power, Influence, Energy, Technology, etc. --- in Reflexive-Relationships with and within: Domineering-Bullies and/or True-Lovers --- within: A. Families, B. Friendships, C. Neighborhoods, D. Tribes, E. Villages, F. Religious-Activities, G. Political-Activities, H. Scholarly-Activities, I. Scientific-Research, J. Communications-of-all-kinds, K. Intimate-Relationships, L. Courtships, M. Sexual-Relationships, N. Etc. The levels of danger present in resolving the above issues --- depend upon the following kinds of consideration: A. How well people are encouraged to Think-Independently B. What rights people have to Think-Independently C. What rights people have to be in Open/Honest-Dialogue D. How well people are focused upon Personal-Integrity E. How well people are focused upon Communal-Integrities F. How well people are focused upon Integrations-As-Such G. How well people focus upon Clusters-of-Many-Virtues H. How well people focus upon Clusters-of-Many-Vices I. How well people understand complex relationships J. How well people cooperate in complex relationships K. How well people communicate in complex relationships In all of the above, The-Central-Issue is that True-Lovers ARE-FREE to explore new Honest-Reflexive-Relationships and share their findings honestly within Sanctuaries-for-All in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues --- ONLY-TO-THE-EXTENT that True-Lovers are COMPLETELY-FREE of THREATS-OF- EXCOMMUNICATIONS by-Domineering-Bullies and their Supporters-of-Diverse-Kinds --- within All-Different- Kinds-of-Institutions: Religious, Political, Economic, Tribal, Governmental, Prisons, etc. To the extent that people respond to Alienative- Domineering-Bullies in the Alienative-Manners of Domineering-Bullies --- to that extent Alienative- Domination will grow exponentially without limit --- and civility/civilizations fall. To the extent that people respond to Reconciling-True- Lovers in the manners of Reconciling-True-Loves --- to that extent Reconciling-True-Lovers will thrive and civility/civilizations will thrive. To the extent that people respond to Alienative- Domineering-Bullies in the manners of Reconciling-True- Loves --- to that extent Reconciling-True-Lovers will thrive and civility/civilizations will thrive. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================