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   %DOMINEERING BULLY CONTROLLING ONE LITTLE COSMOS 080429

None of the following are Viable-Options to a Domineering-
Bully --- because each of the following entails threats to
the  LITTLE-Cosmos   Controlled-By each Domineering-Bully:

 1.  Cooperation with strangers;   "different" people.
 2.  Cooperation with Strange-Foreigners from far away.
 3.  Open-and-Honest-Dialogue with all of its risks.
 4.  Unregulated-Intimacies   Not-Controlled-by-Anybody.
 5.  Creativity and the Envisioning of new Possibilities.
 6.  Learning from Mistakes   which   Have-Not-Been made.
 7.  Ending Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.
 8.  Transcending/Ending Alienative-Patterns-of-Behavior.
 9.  Letting-Go of Superior Patterns of Self-Defense.
10.  Letting-Go of Superior Tools-of-Total-Domination.
11.  Letting-Go of Hopes/Plans of Perfect-Invulnerability.
12.  Letting-Go of Technocratic-Means to Get-Security.
13.  Letting-Go of Getting to any Planned-Destination.
14.  Seeing Self-And-Other on Speck-Space-Ship-Earth.
15.  Being Well-Informed about the Cosmos-as-a-Whole.
16.  Healing-Alienation rooted in Arrogance/Hubris.
17.  Resolving Dilemmas through True-Conflict-Resolutions.
18.  Distinguish between Dilemmas and Technical-Problems.
19.  Becoming involved in Truly-Intimate-Relationships.
20.  Letting-Go Controls of Truly-Intimate-Relationships.
21.  Truly-Understanding    Truly-Intimate-Relationships.
22.  Truly-Understanding any Paradoxical-Truth-as-a-Whole.

Because  of  the Essential-Nature of  the  Bully-Paradigm,
Bullies'-Successes must  entail  isolation,  estrangement,
alienation  for the Superior-Bully.   To be  The-Superior-
Bully you must destroy  all  others attempting to be  The-
Superior-Bully.   None of the above fist at all well  into
the Bully-Paradigm.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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