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%CONSENSUSES WITHIN HEALTHY INTEGRATIVE COMMUNITIES 080418
  %SYSTEMS ANALYSIS PRECONDITIONS HEALTHY REFLEXIVE 080418
 %GOOD RELATIONSHIPS OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE KNOWLEDGE 080418

Each  Healthy/Integrative  Person/Community  Has-Developed
Widely-Shared-Consensuses about the FOLLOWING-DESCRIPTIONS
of the Alienative-Aspects of OUR-COLLUSIVE-GAMES-of-MUTUAL
SELF-DECEPTION:

 1.  It  is  TABOO  to  Acknowledge-the-Existence  of  any
Collusive-Game-of-Mutual-Self-Deception in any  Reflexive-
Relationships;  ESPECIALLY-TABOO within our own Reflexive-
Relationships.

 2.  On  Pain-of-Exclusion/Death We-ALL-Require-Each-Other
TO-ENFORCE such TABOOS-WHICH-DO-NOT-EXIST!

 2.  IT-Is-TABOO  to  Describe-these-Aspects  within   any
Open-and-Honest Patterns-of-Dialogue Within-Any-Sanctuary.

 3.  IT-Is-TABOO   to  Describe-Accurately  How-We-Entered
Into-these-Agreements about OUR-COLLUSIVE-GAMES of MUTUAL-
SELF-DECEPTION.

 4.  IT-Is-TABOO  to  Describe-Accurately   How-We-Enforce
these TABOOS-WHICH-DO-NOT-EXIST!

 5.  All-TABOOs (including  these which DO-NOT-EXIST)  are
enforced through the use-and-abuse of threats-of-personal-
and-communal:  rejection,   abandonment,  excommunication,
banishment, denigrations, torture, etc. WHICH NEVER-EXIST.

 6.  We  must never anticipate,   envision,   dream-about,
tolerate, accept, affirm,  or demonstrate any hint that we
might FIND-ANY-WAY-OUT of these collusive-games-of-mutual-
self-deception    WHICH-DO-NOT-EXIST.     All   of   those
unthinkable-possibilities are absolutely TABOO --- because
THEY-DO-NOT  EXIST and  are  UTTERLY-IMPOSSIBLE-FORBIDDEN.
Were they to be acknowledged;  our-cosmos-would-collapse!

 7.  We  must  never  Recognize-Acknowledge-0r-Accurately-
Describe Any-of-the-Following  --- as  possible  foci  for
Denials-of-Reality  ---  WITHIN our  Mutually-Constraining
and Mutually-Disintegrating  NON-EXISTENT playing of -----

     COLLUSIVE-GAMES-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION:

         Abet-Our-Own or Any-Other-Person's:

     a.  Inevitable-deaths-of-any-kind.
     b.  Inevitable Limits, limitations, constraints, etc.
     c.  Mistakes, blunders, tragedies, and/or alienations.
     d.  Ignorance, biases, prejudices, injustices.
     e.  Transcendence and/or letting-go-of any taboos.
     f.  Imaginations of ever letting-go-of any taboos.
     g.  Recognitions of the costs of clinging to taboos.
     h.  Acknowledgments of  costs of clinging to taboos.
     i.  Accurate telling of costs of clinging to taboos.
     j.  Listening   to the  costs of clinging to taboos.
     k.  Military-Industrial-Complexes of Eisenhower-Fame.
     l.  All-Community-Destroying Dismal-Economic-Systems.
     m.  All-Single-Bottom-Line   Profitable-Corporations.
     n.  All-Alienative-Behaviors of Domineering-Bullies.
     o.  Systemic-Patterns of Distributive-Injustice.
     p.  Alienative-Systemic-Concentrations of Wealth.
     q.  Alienative-Systemic-Concentrations of Powers.
     r.  Alienative-Systemic-Concentrations of Influence.
     s.  Un-authorized and/or Risky Friendships/Intimacies
     t.  Un-explored patterns of Open-Honest-Dialogues.
     u.  Alienative-Consequences of Fear-and-Domination.
     v.  Systems-Analyses of our Reflexive-Relationships.
     w.  The Implications of Possibly-Loving-Our-Neighbors
     x.  The Implications of Possibly-Trusting-Strangers.
     y.  The Implications of Knowing-who-is-Good-Alone.
     z.  The Implications of Knowing-who-is-Evil-Alone.

         Always beware of what each other is thinking!
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         Be-Liberated by Letting-Go of Collusive GMSD!

        Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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