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 %WELL INFORMED CONSENSUSES ABOUT ESSENTIAL VIRTUES 080418
 %ALIENATIVE VICES RISKY PREOCCUPATIONS TRUST ALONE 080418
%ISOLATED ALIENATED EXCOMMUNICATED IGNORED NEGLECTS 080418
  %ESSENTIAL ASPECTS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRATIONS 080418
  %CLUSTERS UNIQUE COMBINATIONS PERMUTATIONS CREATE 080418
%TRUE LOVERS BEING TOGETHER SHALOM GRACIOUS WAYS GO 080418

Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and-Integrities ---  in
the Long-Term ---  depend critically upon Individuals-and-
Communities developing  Well-Informed-Consensuses   ABOUT:

 1.  Which virtues  are reasonably Safe-to-Trust-Alone; as
Essential-Virtues --- Without-the-Safeguards of Affirming-
Mutually-Complementary  other  Mutually-Protective-Virtues
in parallel with each virtue.

 2.  Our needing to recognize that some Risky-Virtues such
as:   Patriotism,   Loyalty,   Pride,   Certainty,   Self-
Confidence,  Assertiveness,  Forcefulness,  Courage,  and
Endurance   --- need   to   be   Moderated   by  Mutually-
Complementary  other Protective-Virtues such as: Humility,
Balance,     Hospitality,     Generosity,     Cooperation,
Collaboration,  Patience,  etc.  ---  which must be chosen-
contextually  in  light  of the risks of  each  particular
Risky-Virtue within particular contexts.  No One-Isolated-
Set  of  a  few  Protective-Virtues  can  be  trusted   to
Adequately-Protect  against  all   Risky-Virtues'-Various-
Dangers --- within all possible contexts.

 3.  How  for  each  Risky-Virtue  there  may   be   Some-
Particular   other   Mutually-Complementary    Protective-
Virtues  which  are  Especially-Essential  for   Parallel-
Affirmations  and  Parallel-Demonstrations --- along  with
the  particular  Risky-Virtue.    It  may  be  Absolutely-
Essential  to  Agree-by-Consensus  upon  such   Essential-
Pairings and Parallel  Affirmations/Demonstrations  --- to
assure that Risky-Virtues are not Idolized and  Worshipped
In-Isolation as being GOD-HERSELF/HIMSELF.

 4.  How   it  is  that  the  NEEDED:   Essential-Virtues,
Clusters-of-Virtues  and    Mutually-Complementary-Virtues
---   WHICH-ARE-MOST-IMPORTANT  ---    WILL   DEPEND-MOST-
CRITICALLY  upon  Special-Considerations  ---   Given  the
Particular-Challenges  to  OVERALL-INTEGRITY    which  are
Present-Within    Each-DIFFERENT/UNIQUE:

     a.  Situation, Context, Circumstance, Challenge; of

     b.  Alienation, Excommunication, Isolation; within

     c.  Communal/Reflexive: Dilemmas, Conflicts, Contests

     d.  Relationships, Intimacies, Misunderstandings,

     e.  Polarization, Dichotomy, Paradox, Idolatry, etc.

 5.  How it  is  Tragically-Risky   to  Over-Simplify  the
Complexities pointed to by these Complex-Considerations.

 6.  Terrifying-Tragedies that are often rooted in:

     (a)  Over-Simplifications of Such-Complexities,

     (b)  Playing   of  Collusive-Games  of   Mutual-Self-
          Deception --- with all participants losing,

     (c)  Mutual-Rejection/Excommunications/Alienations --
          by  Domineering-Bullies   in   the   absence  of
          Affirmations-Demonstrations     of     Mutually-
          Complementary-Virtues   ---     and    Mutually-
          Protective-Virtues  Like-Mutuality in  Affirming
          and Demonstrating:

          Love           Sensitivity  Empathy    Sympathy
          Generosity     Kindness     Listening  Openness
          Transparency   Honesty      Dialogue

          Each-and-Every-Day    as    Protective-Virtues.

     (d)  The masking  of  Clusters-of-Alienative-Vices by
          misrepresentations  of  Clusters-of-Reconciling-
          Virtues.

     (e)  The  masking of ALIENATIVE-REALITIES  by PSEUDO-
          REALITIES  that  are  created  by   Domineering-
          Bullies to  serve  as  such  masks ---  to  make
          strangers, foreigners,  different-people, appear
          to be Essentially-Evil-Persons   In-Isolation.

 7.  How-and-Why Domineering-Bullies Must-Resist-Violently
Each-of-the-above-Elements AND  RESIST Each-And-Every Way-
of-Combining-Them  in Effective-Clusters-of-Virtues  which
will  NON-VIOLENTLY  resist  each  and  every  Alienative-
Behavior of Domineering-Bullies.

 8.  How-and-Why Domineering-Bullies MUST-RESIST-VIOLENTLY
Each Gracious-and-True  Mature-Lover  who  Dares-to-Resist
Domineering-Bullies and their Alienative-Powers-That-Be by
Being-in-Shalom's-Gracious-Ways: Honest, Authentic,  Kind,
Sensitive, Empathetic, Sympathetic, Hospitable,  Generous,
Transparent, Diplomatic, Approachable, Welcoming, Helpful,
Reconciling, Forgiving, Integrators, Integrated, etc.

 9.  How-and-Why it is that Domineering-Bullies CANNOT-BE-
RESISTED-SUCCESSFULLY   by  Being-Seduced    into any form
of  COPYING Domineering-Bullies'-Own-Alienative-Ways.

10.  How-and-Why  it  is that NO-SYSTEM of:  Commandments,
Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Rituals, Doctrines,  Taboos,
Demands,  Punishments, Rejections, Projections,  Violence,
Controls,  Management or Excommunications -- is helpful in
responding to Domineering-Bullies'   Alienative-Behaviors.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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