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 %DIRECTING ANGER WAYS DOMINEERING BULLY TRUE LOVER 080416
 %ALIENATIVE RECONCILE VIOLENT KIND COERCIVE GENTLE 080416
%DEMAND SHALOM DOMINEERING LIBERATING UNILATERAL IT 080416

Domineering-Bullies  and True-Lovers are likely to  Direct
and Channel their Anger in the following Contrasting-Ways:

Domineering-Bullies' Ways     True-Lovers' Ways
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Alienative                    Reconciling
Violent                       Kind
Coercive                      Gentle
Demanding                     Shalom's
Domineering                   Liberating
Unilateral                    Cooperative
Concentrating                 Distributive
Collusive                     Open-and-Honest
Secretive                     Transparent
Prescriptive                  Loving
Proscriptive                  Suggestive
War-Making                    Peace-Making
Destructive                   Constructive
Threatening                   Hospitality
Greedy                        Generous
Consumptive                   Conserving
Dishonest                     Honest
Deceptive                     Revealing
Terrorists'                   Healing

It  is   difficult   for   Domineering-Bullies   to  Gain-
Appreciation from many people  ---  because they regularly
DESTROY much which Most-People-Need to Live-Healthy-Lives.

It  is difficult for Domineering-Bullies to  Gain-Healthy-
Self-Respect; for they are prone to try to do so,  in ways
which are:  Unilateral, Alienative, Dismissive, and likely
to   undermine   both Personal-and-Communal  Integrations-
and-Integrities.   Unilaterally-Generated-Self-Respect  is
not  worthy  of  any  honor or  respect  by  others;   but
Domineering-Bullies  cannot know that;    because they are
often       playing        Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-
Deception/Domination   with each other.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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