This is http://www.essayz.com/b0804132.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %CIVILITY CIVILIZATION SANCTUARIES BUILT ESSENTIAL 080413 %MUTUALLY COMPLEMENTARY WAYS SHALOM TRUE LOVERS 080413 Civility-and-Civilizations are built upon Essential- Informal-Consensuses about the following kinds of realities within the Many-Mutually-Complimentary Ways-of-Shalom: 1. What Clusters-of-Virtues we need to Honor-and-Augment --- as Essential to Personal-and-Communal Integrations- and-Integrities; e.g., clusters of combinations of the following Virtues seen as Mutually-Complementary-Virtues: a. Open-and-Honest public dialogue about relationships b. Generosity, Hospitality, and Conflict-Resolutions. c. Sensitivity, Empathy, Sympathy, and Kindness. d. Balance, Mutuality, Reciprocity, Giving-Forward. e. Reconciliations and Building-Sanctuaries for ALL. f. Systems-Analyses of Complex Interdependencies. g. Systems-Analyses of Finite-Resource-Dependencies. h. Tracing-Tragedies back to Simplistic-Lone-Ideals. i. Building Healthy-Total-Robust-Environments. j. Learning-Much from our Mistakes, Blunders, Failures k. Recycling-Learning during each Human-Generation. 2. What Clusters-of-Vices (including Abused-Virtues) to expose as Alienative/Disintegrative and so as Central- Threats to Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and- Integrities; e.g., clusters of combinations of the following Vices operating within Patterns of Unilateral: a. Domination-and-Controls managed by Diverse-Bullies. b. Concentrations of Wealth, Powers, and Influence. c. Demands, Commands, Prescriptions, Proscriptions. d. Taboos and Enforcements-Thereof in Alienative-Ways. e. Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception in Powers. f. Entrapments in Addictions-and-Codependent-Relations g. Trafficking in Drugs and Alienative-Sexual-Activity. h. Enslavement by patterns of Economic-Controls. i. Enslavement by patterns of Resource-Exhaustions. j. Enslavement by patterns of Simplistic-Idealism. k. Enslavement by patterns of Constantly-Being-Busy. l. Enslavement by Alienative-Myths-of-Redemptive-XXX. m. Enslavement by Concentrated Powers-that-Be-Above. n. Enslavement by Hierarchies and Segregations. o. Enslavement by Searching for Invulnerability. p. Enslavement by Knowing WHO is Good, WHO is Evil. 3. HOW MOST GRACIOUSLY to Expose-as-Disintegrative diverse Clusters-of-Vices and HOW MOST GRACIOUSLY to Mitigate-Them as Antithetical to Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and-Integrities; and as Antithetical to Civilization in all its Authentic-Forms of Being-Together in Shalom's Many Mutually-Complementary-Ways. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ==========================================================