This is http://www.essayz.com/b0804032.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %DOMINEERING BULLIES NURTURE UNILATERAL AGENDAS GOD 080403 %PRESUME NO NEED OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE AUTHENTIC OWN 080403 %PERSPECTIVE VIEW ATTITUDE NEEDS HOPES DESIRES LET 080403 %LETTING GO TOLERATE CREATIVE DIFFERENCES MUTUALITY 080403 %BALANCE MUTUAL COMPLEMENTARY WAYS SHALOM TRUSTING 080403 %POWER WEALTH CONCENTRATIONS ECONOMIC SYSTEM GREED 080403 Domineering-Bullies nurture Unilateral-Agendas --- which which Presume-NO-Need to Be-in-Open-and-Honest-Dialogue with other people --- who have their own: Perspectives, Points-of-View, Attitudes, Assumptions, Beliefs, Agendas, Plans, Needs, Desires, Hopes, Aspirations, Expectations, Fears, Anxieties, Weaknesses, Vulnerabilities --- All-of- Which need to be Considered-Graciously in Shalom's Many Mutually-Complementary-Ways. It is NOT part of Domineering-Bullies' intentions, expectations or desires --- to interact with other people's agendas. Such interactions are Certainly-Not the basis of balanced mutual: interest, respect, honor, and consideration --- on the part of Domineering-Bullies. Domineering-Bullies do NOT approach other people as Whole- Beings with Unique-Integrities of their own. Domineering-Bullies often DO approach other people as Mere-Things that Merit-no-Humane-Respect related to their own personal: Integrities, Authenticity, Presence, Relationships and Communities. Domineering-Bullies DO often approach other people as Mere-Things that are worthy of consideration ONLY-AS: Things-to-be-Used, Raw-Material-to-be-Reformed, Agents-to- be-put-to-Work to advance The-Plan, or Shoved-Aside for the Good-of-the-Cause. In all of the above ways --- Domineering-Bullies are Inherently-Dishonest about the realities that confront them --- refusing to honor other people as being worthy of HUMANE: Respect, honor, and Open-and-Honest-Dialogue. In all of the above ways --- Domineering-Bullies engage in Alienative-Behaviors which augment people's tendencies to Engage-in-Competition as Domineering-Bullies. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ==========================================================