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%MANY RISKS ASSOCIATED WITH COMPULSIVE AVOIDANCE IT 080326
  %THOU YOU ME BUBER WE US TOGETHER COLLUSIVE GAMES 080326
%MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION REGARDING DYSFUNCTIONAL GOOD 080326
  %CODEPENDENT SUPPORTERS DRUG ADDICTION PROFITABLE 080326
 %HEALTH INSURANCE COMPANY STOCKS BONDS SELECTIVITY 080326
%AVOID PEACEMAKERS MANY GRACIOUS WAYS OF SHALOM GOD 080326

The  following are among the Many-Risk which Are-Likely to
Become-Associated-With Compulsively-Avoiding the Risks-of-
Being-Graciously-Together  For-Long  in the  Many-Gracious
Ways-of-Shalom.

We  Cannot-Avoid  the Dilemmas  of  Risk-Management  which
confront us in Our-Personal-Relationships.

Attempting to Avoid-the-Dilemmas of Risk-Management  which
confront  us Within-Being-Compulsive Avoiders-of-Risks-of-
Being-Graciously-Together  For-Long  in the  Many-Gracious
Ways-of-Shalom ----- Mis-Leads-US-Tragically toward ALL of
the following --- among  the Many-Risk which Are-Likely to
Become-Associated-With Compulsively-Avoiding the Risks-of-
Being-Graciously-Together  For-Long  in the  Many-Gracious
Ways-of-Shalom. We cannot escape being confronted with the
PROBABLE-RISKS of Alienation-and-Disintegration:

 1.  In the presence of           Domineering-Behaviors.
 2.  In the absence of active     True-Lovers     in LOVE.
 3.  In the presence of Violent   Behaviors/Relationships.
 4.  In the absence of  Shalom    In its many kind forms.
 5.  In the presence of Arrogant  Self-Righteousness.
 6.  In the absence of  Gracious  Reconciliations/Shalom.
 7.  In the presence of Honestly  Being-One-in-Dialogue.
 8.  In the absence of Hospitality-and-Generosity.
 9.  In the presence of "Invulnerability" for Just a few.
10.  In the absence of  Distributive-Justice-for-Most.

We can cooperate in managing our risks in Shalom's Ways.

Domineering-People Will-NOT-Tolerate such cooperation!

Domineering-People Are-Often-Honored in Tragic-Ways.

The  following  are  some of the principles which  we  can
wisely/prudently  keep in mind when working  cooperatively
in responding to the risks which cannot avoid:

 1.  Avoid  copying  the alienative behavior  patterns  of
Domineering-Bullies --- in responding to their behaviors.

 2.  Become Mutually-Well-Informed in assessing the  Most-
Probably-Outcomes of adopting various: (a)  Attitudes, (b)
Assumptions, (c)  Beliefs, (d) Foci-of-Trust, (e) Patterns
of response, (f) Hopes, (g) Expectations, (h) Technologies
and (g) Ways-of-Organizing Our-Efforts.

 3.  Avoid  falling  into the traps of  Polarizations  and
Dichotomizations  in Framing-Questions and  Responding-to-
Questions-Asked.

 4.  Avoid falling into traps of treating as ABSOLUTE ----
ANY-ISOLATED:   (a)  Person-or-Persons,   (b)   Leader-or-
Leaders,   (c)  Idea-or-Ideas,  (d)  Ideal-or-Ideals,  (e)
Value-or-Values, (f) Scripts-or-Scriptures, (g) Truth-or-
Truths, Paradigm-or-Paradigms, Perspective-or-Perspectives
within any ISOLATED-REALM.

 5.  Avoid falling into the traps of the many tragic forms
of  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception focused upon:
Invulnerability, Unilateral-Security, Unilateral-Defenses,
Eternal-Life,   Death,  Finitude,   Being-Superior-People,
Having-Unlimited-Resources,    Being-In-Control,    Being-
Dominant, Purity, Purifications, Imperfection, etc.

 6.  Avoid  slipping  into  Thoughtless-Complicity within
Systemic-Patterns of Profitable-Distributive-Injustices.

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