This is http://www.essayz.com/b0803190.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %REFLEXIVE SYSTEMS ANALYSIS RELATIONAL CAUSE EFFECT 080319 The misunderstandings among True-Lovers and Domineering- Bullies are rooted in chaotic mixtures of the following Dimly-Anticipated-Possibilities: 1. Sacred-Intimacies, 2. Terrifying-Abandonment, 3. Unconditional-Acceptance, 4. Communal-Excommunication, 5. Conditional-Acceptance, 6. Threats-of-Rejection, 7. Conditional-Intimacies, 8. Demonstrations-of-Rejection, 9. Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, 10. Pretentious-Demands-of-Role-Playing, 11. Pretending-to-Be-Authentic, 12. Rejections-of-Intimacy, 13. Proscriptions-of-Honesty, 14. Prescriptions-of-Confessions, 15. Mixtures-of-Virtues-and-Vices, 16. Pretending-Vices-are-Virtues, 17. Pretending-Virtues-are-Vices, 18. Forgetting-Early-Real-Security, 19. Confusing-Invulnerability-with-Security, 20. Fearing-the-Risks-of-Open-and-Honest-Dialogue. It is nearly impossible to sort out the possibilities and impossibilities in the absence of intentional efforts to RECOGNIZE: which elements above augment-confusion and which elements above mitigate-confusion; which elements augment-themselves and which elements mitigate opposing-elements; which elements mitigate-themselves and which elements augment opposing-elements. ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ==========================================================