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   %INHERENTLY DESTRUCTIVE DOMINEERING BULLIES WAYS 080318
 %COMPULSIVE CHALLENGES ALIENATIVE RESPONSES LOSERS 080318
%PREOCCUPATIONS VIOLENT BATTLES CONFLICTS DUAL KILL 080318

Domineering-Bullies  are  Inherently-Destructive.     They
cannot  abide  each other ---   without  challenging  each
other. They cannot ignore each other's challenges;  for to
ignore  them  is  to admit defeat ---  to  let  the  other
challenger win.

Domineering-Bullies  may  engage in tacit  challenges  and
contests  that are below the radar of many observers;  but
the    Challenges   and    Alienative-Behaviors    Remain-
Destructive.

Domineering-Bullies  cannot with integrity engage in  True-
Conflict-Resolution;  for in the context of True-Conflict-
Resolution   Domineering-Bullies   do   not   succeed   as
Domineering-Bullies --- by  Winning-at-the-expense-of-The-
Other who is defeated.   In the absence of a  Defeat-of-a-
Challenger --- the Domineering-Bully cannot win.

Domineering-Bullies demand that there be conflicts --- and
The-Absence-of-Conflicts is a sign that they are losing at
being DOMINEERING-BULLIES.

DOMINEERING-BULLIES  can  be defeated by  True-Lovers  who
Resist-Domination  in  ways  which are  NOT:   Alienative,
Violent, Demanding, Arrogant, Destructive, etc.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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