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 %DISARMING QUESTIONS FRAMED OUTSIDE PARADIGM BULLY 080309
%DOMINEERING TERRORISTS MILITARY ASSAULT BATTLES ID 080309
  %BASIC FOUNDATION CLING HOLDING BELIEF CONVICTION 080309
%UNEXAMINED ASSUMPTIONS ATTITUDES PREJUDICES BIASES 080309
%ELICIT DRAW OUT EDUCATE EDUCEMENTS REVELATIONS GOD 080309
%ACKNOWLEDGE SELF OTHER PRIORITIES COLLUSIONS GAMES 080309

When    Domineering-Bullies   are   Together-at-Work   the
following  Disarming-Questions may be  Helpfully-Asked  in
Gracious  ways ---  to  expose  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-
Self-Deception:

 1.  What  are the Most-Important  Beliefs-and-Convictions
which form the basis for your asking your questions in the
particular ways that you ask them?

 2.  What are the Most-Important Pieces-of-Evidence  which
form   the   basis  for  your   Clinging-To   Beliefs-and-
Convictions  which  form  the basis for your  asking  your
questions in the particular ways that you ask them?

 3.  What  are the Most-Important Pieces-of-Evidence which
might call into question your   Clinging-To   Beliefs-and-
Convictions  which  form  the basis for your  asking  your
questions in the particular ways that you ask them?

 4.  For what reasons do some people object to your asking
your questions in the particular ways that you ask  them?
What are the Most-Important Beliefs-and-Convictions  which
they DO-NOT-SHARE with you?  What are their Most-Important
ALTERNATIVE Beliefs-and-Convictions?  On the basis of what
Pieces-of-Evidence  do  you  NOT-SHARE  their  ALTERNATIVE
Beliefs-and-Convictions?

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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