This is http://www.essayz.com/b0802251.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %WAYS FINDING SECURITY INVULNERABILITY DEFENSES 080225 %LIKE MINDED COMMUNITIES MINIMIZE DIFFERENCES EVIL 080225 %ISOLATED DIFFERENT PERSONS FOREIGNERS DANGEROUS IT 080225 %UNILATERAL COALITION DOMINEERING BULLIES FORTRESS 080225 %GEOGRAPHIC IDEOLOGICAL RELIGIOUS ISOLATION IDEALS 080225 %ABSOLUTE TRUTH CERTAINTY CONCENTRATE WEALTH POWER 080225 Humans seek/find security in many ways which include the following: 1. Seeking out individuals like themselves to form like- minded-communities and minimize differences which may become occasions for conflict. 2. Seeking out individuals willing to form like-minded coalitions to dominate unlike-minded different people and so be secure in Superior-Isolation. 3. Going into isolation geographically far all different people, and so avoid having to deal with any different people. 4. Going into isolation in cloisters in the midst of many people --- so separating themselves from occasions of having to deal with different people. 5. Concentrating wealth-and-power into the hands of a few like-friends --- so as to be able to dominate many- other people and force them into conformity as regards: perspectives, opinions, attitudes, habits, and the kinds of relationships which are honored, respected and rewarded; or else eliminating those who insist on being non-conformists of any kind. 6. Being willing to accommodate and tolerate all kinds of domineering behaviors --- so as to avoid all conflicts with domineering bullies of all ages and kinds. 7. Being dishonest about one's own experiences, feelings, attitudes, perceptions, perspectives, views, beliefs and patterns of trust --- so as to accommodate to the demands of domineering bullies. 8. Playing Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception with domineering bullies --- so as to avoid conflicts which are very destructive. 9. Getting involved in Desensitizing-Addictions --- so as to be unaware of conflicts, tensions and contentious relationships with those around us. 10. Getting involved in Codependent-Relationships with Dishonest-Supportive-Codependents --- so as to be able to maintain Desensitizing-Addictions as noted just above. 11. Recognizing, Acknowledging, Describing and dealing cooperatively with Authentic-Integrative-Individual- Differences by Being-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================