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%TRUE LOVER CLEARLY ARTICULATE DEMONSTRATE CLUSTERS 080223
%VIRTUES EXPOSE VICES WHEN WERE SAFE RISK DIALOGUES 080223
%OPEN HONEST VULNERABILITY ACCEPTABLE RISKY WORKING 080223
%TRAGIC ABSENCE PRESENCE FUTILE EFFORTS SUCCEED GOD 080223
%DESCRIBE TRANSCENDENT OMNIPOTENCE OMNISCIENCE GOOD 080223
%KNOWING WHO PERSON ESSENTIALLY GOOD EVIL DEVIL SIN 080223

True-Lovers  Clearly-Articulate-and-Demonstrate for  Each-
Other's-Benefit How-When-and-Where It-Is that:

 1.  Particular-Clusters-of-Virtues  Are-TRULY-PRESENT  in
ways which make it safe To-Be-Together-Safely in Open-and-
Honest-Dialogues with Acceptable-Levels-of-Risk.

 2.  Particular-Clusters-of-Vices    Are-TRULY-ABSENT   in
ways which make it safe To-Be-Together-Safely in Open-and-
Honest-Dialogues with Acceptable-Levels-of-Risk.

 3.  Particular-Clusters-of-Virtues  Are-TRAGICALLY-ABSENT
and so make it Un-safe  To-Be-Together-Safely in Open-and-
HOnest Dialogue with Acceptable-Levels-of-Risk.

 4.  Particular-Clusters-of-Vices    Are-TRAGICALLY-ABSENT
and so make it Un-safe  To-Be-Together-Safely in Open-and-
HOnest Dialogue with Acceptable-Levels-of-Risk.

 5.  Particular-Clusters-of-Virtues  Are-TRULY-PRESENT  in
ways which make it Right  To-Take-Risks-Together-Wisely in
Open-and-Honest-Actions with Acceptable-Levels-of-Risk.

 6.  Particular-Clusters-of-VICES   Are-TRAGICALLY-PRESENT
ways  which  make  it   Foolish   To-Take-Risks-Alone   in
Misguided   Tragically-Simplistic-Ideological-Actions that
Trigger-Augmentations-of:  Alienations,  Ignorance, Greed,
Prejudice, Anger, Revenge,  Violence,  Controls,  Demands,
Commands, Controls, Domination, Rebellion, Confusion, etc.

 7.  Particular-Clusters-of-Virtues Are-GRACIOUSLY-PRESENT
in ways which make it  Prudent  To-Take-Risks-Together  in
Wisely-Guided Authentically-Integrated Ways-of-Shalom that
Trigger-Augmentations-of: Reconciliation, Knowledge, Love,
Intimacy,  Grace,  Healing, Kindness, Liberation, Service,
Hospitality, Generosity, Recreation, Home-Comings, etc.

 8.  It  is futile to try to predict or anticipate  future
events/outcomes  ---  because we cannot  possibility  have
enough  information  and  understanding of the  course  of
events between now and an exceedingly distant future time;
and so it is tragically foolish to spend much time, energy
or   resources  while  pretending  that  we  can  make   a
difference   about  such  events/outcomes.    (Study  what
physicists  call  "Chaos Theory"   and  "The  Uncertainty-
Principle")

 9.  It is futile to Try-to-Control-or-Dominate particular
Reflexive-Relationships between/among us and other people;
especially when they are characterized by the presence of:
Alienation,   Exclusivity,   Fear,  Anxiety, Greed,  Envy,
Wealth/Power---Concentrations/Inequalities,     Arrogance,
Dishonesty,   Pretentions,  Self-Righteousness,  Violence,
Controllers,   Rebellions,  Anger,   Revenge,   Ignorance,
Prejudice, Hubris, Unilateralism, Invulnerability,  Forts,
Fortresses, Defensiveness, Militarism, Collusive-Games-of-
Mutual-Self-Deception, Addictions, Codependent-Supporters,
and other Intimately-Related-Vices.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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