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%DISARM BULLIES ATTITUDES ASSUMPTIONS BELIEFS WANTS 080203
%TECHNOCRATS TECHNOLOGIES BEING CONTROLLER DOMINANT 080203
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Domineering-Controllers  are  BULLIES   whose  Compulsive-
Preoccupation  is Feeling-Good-About-Themselves because of
how Important-They-Are through Being-in-Control of MANY:

 1.  People,
 2.  Personal-Relationships,
 3.  Personal-Possessions,
 4.  Communal-Relationships,
 5.  Ideas-and-Ideals,
 6.  Profitable-Destinations,
 7.  Respected-and-Honored-Conclusions,
 8.  Teachings-and-Doctrines,
 9.  Reputations-and-Honors,
10.  Grounds-of-Being.

Domineering-Controllers are  BULLIES  who  are  NOT  Much-
Concerned-With/Interested-In  Facilitating-or-Encouraging:

 1.  Open-and-Honest-Dialogue,
 2.  Personal Authenticity-or-Integrity,
 3.  Communal Authenticity-or-Integrity,
 4.  Healthy-Intimacies,
 5.  Hospitality-or-Hospitals,
 6.  Reconciliation-or-Healing,
 7.  Mitigations-of-Alienation,
 8.  Mitigations-of-Violence,
 9.  Mitigations-of-Addictions,
10.  Mitigations-of-Collusive-Games-of-MSD,
11.  Mitigations-of-Confusion-and-Chaos,
12.  Descriptions-of-Immutable-Natural-Processes/Laws,
13.  Descriptions-of-Human-Limitations/Limits,
14.  Descriptions-of-Natural-Limited-Resources,
15.  Descriptions-of-Human-Finitude-and-Mortality,
16.  Descriptions-of-BULLIES'-FAILURES and FALLING.

No-One can Mitigate, Heal, or Transcend Bullies by:

 1.  Becoming Bullies,
 2.  Copying Behavior Patterns-of-Bullies,
 3.  Adopting Bullies' Attitudes, Assumptions or Goals;
 4.  Adopting Bullies' Perceptions of Vices/Virtues,
 5.  Adopting Bullies' Technologies-of-Control,
 6.  Adopting Bullies' Technologies-of-Destruction,
 7.  Adopting Bullies' Alienative-Technologies-of-GREED,
 8.  Adopting Bullies' Definitions of WHO is GOOD/EVIL,
 9.  Stealing Bullies' Tree-Of-Knowledge of Good-and-Evil,
10.  Copying  Bullies' Disdain for Paradoxical-Truths.

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The Communal-Dilemma with Domineering-Controllers Who-Are-
Bullies ---   is  that  Domineering-Controllers'-Goals are
ESSENTIALLY-ALIENATIVE;   rather  than just  Accidentally-
Alienative:

 1.  In  the  Absence-of-Alienation  between  Domineering-
Controllers  and  their  victims;  Domineering-Controllers
Have-Not-Fully-Achieved-Their-Goal.

 2.  Domineering-Controllers      Have-Not-Fully-Achieved-
Their-Goal   if  their  victims  HAVE-NOT:    Surrendered,
Yielded-their-Integrity,   Pledged-their-Support,   Bowed-
Down-In-Submission, Given-Up-Hope.

 3.  Domineering-Controllers      Have-Not-Fully-Achieved-
Their-Goal  if their victims in any way QUESTION/CHALLENGE
their: behaviors,  teachings,  powers,  wealth, influence,
integrity, etc.

 4.  Domineering-Controllers      Have-Not-Fully-Achieved-
Their-Goal  if their victims in any way show  Respect-For,
Honor-To,   Support-Of  or Interest-In ---   any  concern,
cause,  power,  source-of-authority,  truth,  virtue,   or
vision  ---  which is Not-Controlled by  the  Domineering-
Controllers.

 5.  Domineering-Controllers      Have-Not-Fully-Achieved-
Their-Goal if their victims in any way Fail-to-Treat-Them-
As-GOD; i.e., Fail-to-Engage in IDOLATRY.

     Bullies Can-be-Disarmed only by True-Lovers who are
                Truly-Being-Together In-Doing
             What Bullies Systematically-Disdain.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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