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%LIFE JOURNEY LEARNING RESPONDING DEALING ADVERSITY 080101
%TRANQUILITY TRIALS COMFORTS TRIBULATIONS PEACE GOD 080101
 %THREATS PEACEMAKING ROLE MODELS RISKS TRAUMAS AWE 080101
%THREATS ATTACKS PLEASURES PAINS HOPES EXPECTATIONS 080101
%EARLY MEMORABLE EXPERIENCES CONNECTIONS DISCONNECT 080101
  %GETTING OUT WOMB FIRST MINUTES DAYS WEEKS MONTHS 080101

Each  person's  Life-Ways  of  dealing  with:   adversity,
tranquility,   trials,   comforts,   tribulations,  peace,
threats,  peacemaking,  risks,   traumas,   awe,  threats,
pleasures,  pain,  hopes,  reverence,  sexuality, etc. ---
depends   to   a  significant  extent  upon  their   early
memorable-experiences of  connections/disconnects  between
their notable-experiences of such realities IN:

 1.  The womb,
 2.  Getting out of the womb,
 3.  The first minutes after getting out of the womb,
 4.  The first few days/weeks after getting out,
 5.  The first interactions with people thereafter,
 6.  Learning how to communicate with other people,
 7.  Intimacies with those nearest and dearest,
 8.  Initial occasions of competition/conflict,
 9.  Initial occasions of conflict-resolution,
10.  Learning how to play graciously with others,
11.  Learning how to work graciously with others,
12.  Dealing with conflicts that are not resolved,
13.  Learning how to articulate all of the above,
14.  Learning how to transcend some of the above,
15.  Forming overall-frame-works for understanding,
16.  Getting stuck in places of arrested growth,
17.  Observing how others respond to the above,
18.  Experiencing different kinds of real security,
19.  Experiencing different kinds of false security,
20.  Trying to minimize risks and costs ALONE.
21.  Learning to minimize risks and costs TOGETHER.
22.  Devising ways to deal with alienation ALONE.
23.  Devising ways to deal with alienation TOGETHER.
24.  Devising ways to augment Self-Esteem ALONE.
25.  Devising ways to augment Self-Esteem TOGETHER.
26.  Learning to Mitigate Alienative-Behavior-Patterns.
27.  Learning to Mitigate Alienative-Responses-There-To.
28.  Learning to deal with Finitude, Limitations, Death.
29.  Learning to deal with Intimacies, Risks and LOVE.
30.  Learning to let go of Negativity, Contentiousness....

Many  patterns  are  set early in life regarding  ways  of
coping ALONE and/or in Being-Graciously-Together-in-LOVE.

Those  early experiences play major roles in crystallizing
each person's sense of how best to experience any security
in the presence of: many,  trials,  tribulations, threats,
attacks,   and risks ---  that are present in occasions of
intimacies  of  open-and-honest-dialogues.    Each  person
develops convictions about what is  possible  and  what is
not possible --- in regards to being Truly-Secure-and-Safe
within  Risky-Intimacies within Sanctuaries-for-All and/or
within Great-Fortresses-Built-for-Just-a-Special-Few in an
Exclusive-Club for Superior-People.

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     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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