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 %TRAP ASSUMED BEING ALIKE IDENTICAL CONFORMED SAME 071219
%REQUIRED DOMINATION COMFORTABLY UNITED TEAM SPIRIT 071219
%HOLY SACRED MANDATE DESTINY CALLING PROFESSION GOD 071219
%COMMON EXPERIENCE PERSPECTIVE SITUATION CONTEXT ID 071219
%IGNORED FACT PERSON BRINGS EXPECTATION DESIRES SEX 071219
%TRUE LOVERS INTIMACIES NEIGHBORS FELLOWSHIP HONEST 071219

We all too often fall into the trap of assuming that in  a
given situation what we experience --- must be the same as
what other people there experience --- for they are in the
"same" situation.

The ignored fact is that the "given situation"  is NOT the
same-for-all-people  who  are  present   in   the   "given
situation".

The reality of any "given situation" depends significantly
upon what each person "brings to the given situation" ---
just  as  the  meaning of any "given  text  or  scripture"
depends upon what each reader/hearer of the "Given text of
Scripture"   brings to the reading/hearing of  the  "Given
text or Scripture."

 1.  Are they familiar with the language of the text?
 2.  Are they familiar with the dialect of the text?
 3.  Are they familiar with the text in like manner?
 4.  Have they been educated in like manner?
 5.  Do they come from like cultural experiences?
 6.  Do they came from like religious experiences?
 7.  Do they come form like spiritual experiences?
 8.  Do they come from like personal relationships?
 9.  Do they come from like scientific training?
10.  Do they enjoy like concentrations of wealth/powers?

What  our  experience  is ---  in  any  "given  situation"
depends upon:

 1.  What we were given in our DNA code at conception.
 2.  What mutations have occurred since then in our DNA.
 3.  How we have been victimized by Domineering-People.
 4.  How we have been healed by being with True-Lovers.
 5.  What texts we have read within our global contexts.
 6.  Our experiences within our different families.
 7.  Our experiences within our educational settings.
 8.  Our experiences within our business/work settings.
 9.  Our experiences within our intimate relationships.
10.  Our experiences within our violent relationships.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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