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   %SYSTEMS ANALYSIS REFLEXIVE INTIMATE TRUE LOVERS 071212
 %THREATEN DOMINATION PARADIGMS PREDICTIONS FUTURES 071212
%HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS CAREFULLY CONTROLLED DOMINATED 071212

Domineering-People   cannot  With-Integrity  Successfully-
Determine  the  future  course of any  Personal-Reflexive-
Relationship    by    Defining-the-Meaning/Significance of
various kinds/levels of:  Dialogue, Honesty,  Cooperation,
Collaborations,  Intimacy,  Balance,  Mutuality,   Bonding,
Covenants,   etc.   A  relationship with  True-Lovers  can
Liberate Domineering-People from their Prisons-of-Hubris.

Domineering-People  cannot  reliably  predict  the  future
courses  of  their relationships with  other  Domineering-
People;  or the future courses of their relationships with
True-Lovers.  They cannot do so because:

 1.  Domineering-People  alienate  themselves  from   each
other and from True-Lovers --- and so do not have reliable
information  about  each other,   possible  relationships,
and/or  about possible Paradigm-Shifts in their Reflexive-

 2.  In Relationships-of-Alienation-and/or-Reconciliation;
Reliable-Predictions  depend   upon   Reliable-Information
about  starting points;  and even then nobody can  predict
reliably  very   far  into  the  future   about  anybody's
relationships.     Consider  the  implications  of  "Chaos
Theory"!

 3.  Domineering-People  are preoccupied with avoiding the
risks  of  getting to know anybody well enough  to  become
vulnerable in a truly intimate relationship with  anybody;
so  they  are  constantly  basing  their  decisions   upon
ignorance   and   prejudice   which   are   systematically
cultivated in Domineering-Ways.

 4.  Robust  healthy  long-term relationships entail  many
cooperative   people   being  together  in  the   mutually
complementary  ways  of  Shalom.    Successful-Domineering
people  work in ways which makes such Robust-Healthy Long-
Term-Relationships  impossible ---  to avoid  the  threats
that such relationships present to The-Domination-System.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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