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%APPROACHES ATTITUDE ASSUMPTION HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS 071205
%HELPFUL DESTRUCTIVE INTEGRATIVE DISINTEGRATIVE GOD 071205
%PLAYING COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTIONS SIN 071205
 %PURPOSES EXPECTATIONS AGENDAS ANTICIPATIONS GREED 071205
%HOPES FEARS MOTIVATIONS ANXIETIES DESIRES DEFENSES 071205
  %DEMANDS COMMANDS CONTENTIONS COOPERATION VIRTUES 071205

    When  we  are  considering  Human-Relationships  it is
helpful to be aware of how particular participants Regard-
and-Approach  those  RELATIONSHIPS within which they  play
some    part.      What   are   their   own    and   their
opposites/enemies':

             Purposes?         Expectations?
             Agendas?          Anticipations?
             Hopes?            Fears?
             Motivations?      Anxieties?
             Desires?          Defenses?
             Demands?          Contentions?
             Affirmations?     Negations?
             Competencies      Handicaps?
             Virtues?          Vices?
             Supporters?       Enemies?
             Strengths?        Vulnerabilities?
             Plans?            Injuries?
             Sanctuaries?      Diseases?
             Prayers?          Conflicts?
             Understandings?   Misunderstandings?
             Tolerances?       Taboos?
             Integrities?      Terrors?
             Heavens?          Hells?
             Paradigms?        Confusions?
             Lovers?           Enemies?
             Paradoxes?        Idols?
             Dreams            Night-Mares
             Visions           Fantasies
             Commitments      Collusive Games of MSD

We  cannot  reasonably hope to serve as peacemakers  among
others  if  we are Ignorant-Of and/or  Confused-About  the
above considerations!

We  can serve helpfully as peacemakers to the extent  that
we  are Informed-About and Understanding-About  the  above
diverse  considerations and the Possible-Future-Evolutions
in the Diverse-Relationships    Within-and-Among them all.

True-Loves seek to be:  Cooperatively-In-Dialogue about as
much of the above as they can make time to do.

Domineering-People  seek to be as secretive,   misleading,
confusing, repressive,  suppressive and in-denial about as
much  of  the above  as they can unilaterally  manage  and
control ---  and thereby engender Tragic-Kinds-and-Amounts
of  Alienation,   Misunderstanding,  Anger,   Frustration,
Resentment,   Violence  and Revenge  within:   Courtships,
Romances,   Marriages,    Addictive-Codependent-Relations,
Rapes,  Corporations, Churches,  Religions,  Preparations-
for-War,   Military-Industrial-Complexes,  Threats-of-War,
Military-Attacks, Terrorism, Counter-Attacks, and Counter-
Terrorism.

Domineering-People are incompetent to be  True-Peacemakers
because for  them  Authentic-Truth and Authentic-Intimate-
Relationships are Unthinkable-Taboo realities which cannot
be imagined in any realistic way.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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