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%RECOGNIZE ACKNOWLEDGE DESCRIBE CLARIFY REVEAL TELL 071118
 %TRULY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WORTHY RESPECT HONOR 071118
   %RIGHT OBJECT WITHDRAW ANY MOMENT ENOUGH NO MORE 071118
   %RISK DOMINATION CONTROLS DEMANDS COMMANDS GREED 071118

A  Pattern-of-Human-Relationships  is  NOT  Truly-Intimate
and/or Worthy-of-Respect-and-Honor if any one person among
those    involved   is    NOT   granted   the    Right  to
Object/Withdraw at Any-Moment;  e.g., to indicate "enough-
no-more" ---  and have that indication Grace-Fully honored
by  all  others.     The more people  who  are  intimately
involved,  the more difficult it is to meet this standard!
It is pretentious to pretend otherwise --- or  to  prevent
others from truly doing so.

Within  Patterns-of-Humane-Relationships which ARE  Truly-
Intimate  and/or  Worthy-of-Respect-and-Honor  ALL   those
involved  covenant  to grant to ALL others  the  Right-to-
Withdraw    freely  at  Any-Moment  for  a   freely-chosen
interval  of  time  ---   and  have  that  Indication-and-
Withdrawal Fully-Honored by ALL others.

A   Pattern-of-Human-Relationships  FAILS  to  be   Truly-
Intimate  and/or  Worthy-of-Respect-and-Honor ---  To-The-
Extent-That   any   of  those   involved   affirms  and/or
demonstrates ALIENATIVE-BEHAVIORS involving vices such as:

Greed,   Extremism,   Exclusivity,    Arrogance,   Hubris,
Unilateralism, Violence, Domination, Pretense, Dishonesty,
Exclusivity, Secrecy, Concentrating-Wealth/Power, Masking,
Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, etc.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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