This is http://www.essayz.com/b0711110.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ESSENTIAL FOUNDATION TRUE COURTSHIPS MUTUAL DESIRE 071111 %PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITY AUTHENTIC 071111 %BEING COOPERATIVELY TOGETHER COLLABORATIVE JUSTICE 071111 %HOSPITALITY GENEROSITY MUTUAL DESIRES RISK SEXUAL 071111 %INTIMACIES VULNERABILITIES SAFELY SECURE TRUE LOVE 071111 %CONFIRMED COMMUNICATION DIALOGUE MEANINGFUL ROBUST 071111 True-Courtships are Mutually-Desired-and-Enjoyed Journeys; Pilgrimages in which the participants are as interested in Being-Together-During-their-Journeys --- as in just where their Journeys will take them. True-Courtships are characterized by Justice-in-How-the- Pilgrims Cooperate in Being-Together During-Their- Journeys; Constantly Being-in-Open-and-Honest-Dialogue In- Sharing- Their respective: Hopes, Aspirations, Desires, Pleasures, Risks, Fears, Concerns, Costs, Benefits, etc. ABSENT from True-Courtships are Compulsive-Preoccupations with: Pre-Defined-Destinations, Technocratic-Unilateral- Plans, Concentrations-of-Powers-and-Wealth, Law-and-Order, Who-Is-Good, Who-Is-Evil, Who-Is-In-Control, Who-Is-Best, Who-Is-Superior, Who-Is-Inferior, Who-Is-Can-Be-Dominant. PRESENT within True-Courtships are Gracious-Demonstrations of: Kindness, Sympathy, Empathy, Generosity, Hospitality, Grace, Forgiveness, Learning-from-Mistakes, Acknowledging- Tragic-form-of-Simplistic-Idealism, Sharing-Limited-Goods, Dealing-Honestly-with-Resource-Limitations, Honoring-All- Proven-Accurately-Descriptive Natural-Laws-and-Theories, Humility, Meekness and Patience with each other. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================