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%RECOGNIZE AVOID ALIENATIVE SEXUAL EXPERIENCES EVIL 071021
  %RELATIONSHIPS PEOPLE ALIENS ENEMIES DISTRIBUTIVE 071021
%JUSTICE MUTUAL BALANCE SATISFACTION PLEASURES GOOD 071021
%INDIVIDUALS APPROVED CONFORMED PRESCRIPTIONS DEVIL 071021
%SPIRITS TRUE LOVERS UNAUTHORIZED INTIMACIES COURTS 071021
%PROPER INTOLERANCE EXCLUSIVE CLUBS CHURCHES HOUSES 071021

How  can  we Recognize-And-Avoid sexual experiences  which
are  not good for us?    The following are some  suggested
useful considerations:

 1.  Is  alienation  generated?   At what costs  to  whom?
Because of what aspects of the sexual relationships?

 2.  Are   participants  well  informed   about   sexually
transmitted diseases and the diseases' costs to victims of
them?

 3.  Is there violence, coercion, pain, injury or any form
of unilateral action involved?  At what costs to whom?

 4.  Do those involved and/or affected have  well-balanced
amounts   of   wealth,   power,   education,    influence,
experience, general-maturity, etc?

 5.  Are  those  involved well-informed about the risks of
imprudent  and unwise sexual-bonding;  and what may be the
costs  to  participants in imprudent  and  unwise  sexual-
bonding?

 6.  Are  those involved well-informed about the risks  of
the WIDE-VARIETY of  FORMS-of-ADDICTION  to EACH and/or to
Combinations-of-the-Following:     Drugs,     Codependent-
Supporters,  Particular-Persons,      Particular-Kinds-of-
Persons,  Intimate-Relationships,  Being-Dependent, Being-
Independent,  Being-Victimized,  Being-Vulnerable,  Being-
Invulnerable,    Heroes,   Rich-People,   Powerful-People,
Influential-People,  Beautiful-People,  Sexy-People,  etc.
See  the web page Bibliography
and look for references to ADDICTION.?

  7.  Are  those involved well-aware of how extensive  can
be the network  of inter-dependent reflexive-relationships
which  cannot  be fully controlled by the participants  in
sexual-relationships of all of the various kinds?

  8.  Are  those  involved well-aware of the Many-Ways  in
which  Domineering-People  are  likely to  use  and  abuse
SEXUAL:  instincts,  desires, pleasures, bonding, visions,
dreams, hopes, aspirations, fears, ignorance, suggestions,
innuendoes, flirtation, etc?

  9.  Are those involved Well-Educated and Well-Trained in
how to respond in  Healthy-Ways  to Un-Healthy Alienative-
Behaviors  which  have  Sexual-Overtones  ---   so  as  to
Mitigate-those-Un-Healthy    and     Alienative-Behaviors;
reducing how pervasive they are in their communities?

10.  Do   those  involved  have  ready  access  to   True-
Sanctuaries  in  which  they will be able  to  be  Safely-
Vulnerable  to participate in Healthy,  Open,  and  Honest
DIALOGUE  about their own Intimate-and-Sexual  Experiences
of all kinds?

11.  How Well-Aware are those involved about the costs  to
Personal-and-Communal-Integrities  of the  various  Inter-
Related-Forms      of     Greedy-Profiteering     through:
Prostitution, Pornography, Rape,  Addictions, Codependent-
Support-Networks,  Managed-Ignorance,  Self-Righteousness,
Arrogance,     Domination,    Violence,     Prescriptions,
Proscriptions, Taboos, etc?

12.  What important considerations/suggestions are missing
in the above?

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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