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 %BEGIN UNDERSTAND ACKNOWLEDGE DESCRIBE DOMINEERING 071016
%FEAR DOMINATING FEARFUL DOMINATION SYSTEM LOYAL ID 071016
%COALITION LOYALISTS SUPPORTERS MYTHS REDEMPTIVE IT 071016
%VIOLENT VIOLENT SALVATION UNILATERAL RESCUE BATTLE 071016
  %MILITARY INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX CORPORATIONS JUSTICE 071016
 %VIOLATE DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE POOR HUNGRY HOMELESS 071016

We can  begin  to understand the  Many-Differences between
True-Lovers and  Domineering-People ---   by  Seeking  to:
Recognize,   Acknowledge,  Describe,  and  Be-In-Dialogue-
About:

 1.  What   they  Believe-That  and  Trust-That  they  can
Safely-Tolerate,    Safely-Encourage,    and/or    Safely-
Facilitate.

 2.  How  they   Regard-and-Respond   to   occasions   of:
Creativity,  Free-Exploration,  Liberation, Fear, Liberal-
Education,  Open-and-Honest-Dialogue,  New-Visions-of-New-
Possibilities, Tolerating-Differences, Hospitality-toward-
Strangers-and-Foreigners,  Authenticity,   Generosity-and-
Hospitality, Civil-Discourse, Personal-Intimacy, Civility,
Negativity,  Denigrations,  Attempts-to-Control,  Uses-of-
Violence, Occasions-of-Risky-Intimacy, Privacy, etc.

 3.  The Differences-Between  what True-Lovers Wisely-and-
Prudently-Fear;      and       what     Domineering-People
Thoughtlessly-and-Compulsively   FEAR-and-CANNOT-FACE  and
DO-NOT have the Courage-to-Talk-About.

 4.  The  Essential-Natures  of   the  Collusive-Games-of-
Mutual-Self-Deception    which    Domineering-People-Play-
Together ---  to avoid dealing with the Foci-of-the-above-
FEARS  About-Which  they CANNOT-BE-HONEST  ---  With-Each-
Other; and/or CANNOT-BE-HONEST With-Their-Enemies or With-
True-Lovers. Those Terrible-FEARS Dominate-them-in-Secret!

 5.  The  attitudes  of Domineering-People toward Private-
Intimate-Relationships, compared to the attitudes of True-
Lovers   toward   Private-Intimate-Relationships  --    as
regards:
Risks, Propriety, Permissions, Authorizations, Creativity,
Rights, Constitutionality, Tolerance, Standards,  Demands,
Commands,  Laws, Orders, Maintaining-Privacies,  etc.  Who
should be In-Charge and Have-Control?

 6.  The Attitudes-of-Domineering-People toward being able
to  Concentrate-Powers-to-Control-Other-Peoples'-Fears ---
vs the  Attitudes  of True-Lovers  toward  being  able  to
Concentrate-Powers-to-Control-Other-Peoples'-Fears To-the-
Good-Advantage -- for some over others -- In-Greed's-Ways.

    Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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