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  %ASKING TABOO QUESTIONS ABOUT LETTING GO CONTROLS 071010

                 The asking of questions about:

          (1)  Dangers-in-Letting-Go-of-of-Controls,  and

          (2)  Dangers-in-NOT-Letting-Go-of-Controls   ...

                often-recycle-endlessly.   WHY?

The   Endless-Recycling  occurs  when  the focus is ALWAYS
upon    moving    back-and-forth-among-ONLY   among    the
following  ODD  questions  and  other  questions which are
ALWAYS  supportive  of  asking only the following kinds of
ODD questions  which   ALWAYS   have ODD-NUMBERS as labels
---  even though  others with  even-numbers are right next
to the ODD-NUMBERED  ODD-QUESTIONS!

 1.  Who will be IN-CONTROL if I/WE LET-GO?

 2.  Who among US truly needs-to-care about who will be in
control?

 3.  If I/WE LET-GO how can I/WE be INVULNERABLE?

 4.  If I/we do-not-let-go, how can we be honest with each
other in any intimate and meaningful healthy relationship?

 5.  IF I/WE LET-GO how can I/WE be TOTALLY-SECURE alone?

 6.  If I/we do-not-let-go, how can we cooperate with each
other in well-informed and non-prejudicial was of shalom?

 7.  If I/WE  LET-GO;  WHO will fulfill ESSENTIAL-PROMISES
of SECURITY-THROUGH-INVULNERABILITY and TABOOS-DEFENDED?

 8.  If  I/we  do-not-let-go,  how can we  experiment  and
learn-together from trying-new-creative ways-of-shalom?

 9.  If I/WE  LET-GO  what WONDERFUL-TECHNOLOGY-TECHNOCRAT
will REMAIN-STANDING to SAVE-US  & DELIVER-US INTO-HEAVEN?

10.  If  I/we  do-not-let-go,  how  can  we  focus to help
mitigate biologically transmitted agents of disease?

11.  If I/WE LET-GO of our pathological-fears and  mental-
illnesses; Which-of-US can Make-IT-SAFE for US to LIVE-ON?

12.  If  I/we do-not-let-go, how can we transcend our  own
collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception?

13.  If I/WE LET-GO who will protect our ULTIMATE-CONCERNS
in PRESERVING OUR-COLLUSIVE-GAME-OF-MUTUAL-SELF-DECEPTION?

14.  If  I/we  do-not-let-go, how can we graciously  work-
with-each-other in resolving our ideological-conflicts?

15.  If  I/WE  LET-GO, who  will UNILATERALLY-CONTROL  the
concentration of wealth-and-power into our own hands?

16.  If I/we do-not-let-go,  how can we  avoid  corrupting
influences of concentrating wealth-and-power for a few?

17.  If I/WE LET-GO how can we know for sure who will
and who will lose in OUR-ETERNAL-BATTLES FOR-DOMINATION?

18.  If I/we do-not-let-go, how can  we  avoid  fulfilling
promises of mutually-assured-total-global-destruction?

19.  If I/WE LET-GO  how can  we assure  ETERNAL-SALVATION
ON-OUR-OWN-TERMS?

20.  If  I/we do-not-let-go,  how  can  we together  share
eternal complementary truths which transcend us all?

      What is driving this endless cycle of destruction?

To Accurately-and-Honestly describe THE-DRIVER we need  to
focus upon the  many: assumptions, motivations,   desires,
greeds, demands,  taboos,  and  collusive-games-of-mutual-
self-deception which keep  the Cycle-of-Questions FOCUSED-
EXCLUSIVELY upon the ODD-QUESTIONS; and away from the many
even-handed-evenly-numbered   Very-Basic-Questions   about
Mutually-Complementary Essential-Truths related to Living-
Healthy-Lives within the Many-Gracious-ways-of-Shalom.

We need to  Persistently-Ask  New-Questions  Framed-Within
Frameworks of Concerns-about-Maintaining: Balance, Truths,
Honest-Dialogues, Mutuality, Joys, Authenticity, Personal-
Integrities, Communal-Integrities, Flexibility, Tolerance,
Hospitality,  Hospitals,  Schools, Colleges, Universities,
and  Sanctuaries-Built-for-ALL in keeping with  Universal-
Declarations-of-Humane-Rights-for-ALL and Millennium-Goals
For-ALL to work on Fulfilling-for-ALL their benefits.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious-ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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