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 %EGO SELF CENTER CONCERN COMPULSIVE EXCLUSIVE FOCI 071001
%TRUE LOVERS CONCERN HEALTH INTEGRITY RELATIONSHIPS 071001
%OTHER WELFARE BEING TOGETHER SANCTUARY SHALOM SAFE 071001
%INTIMACY VULNERABILITY OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE SECURE 071001

True-Lovers are  as much concerned about  the  health  and
integrity   of   the   Relationships-Between/Among   other
persons;  as they are concerned about their own health and
integrity.

Concern about one pole does not dominate the nature of the
concern about the other pole.  Exclusivity is not a viable
option.        Exclusivity    leads     to     alienation,
dysfunctional and death.

Domineering-People are often concerned about their wealth,
power, prestige,  luxuries,  controls,  technologies, etc.
---    SEPARATED-FROM   concerns  about  the   Health-and-
Integrities  of  the   Relationships-Between/Among   other
persons  who  have Less-than-Adequate amounts of:  wealth,
power,   prestige,   influence,  and technologies.    Such
SEPARATIONS  of concerns are:   alienative,   destructive,
disintegrative, and lead to tragically simplistic patterns
of  ideals,  values,   principles,   goals,   hopes,   and
expectations;  which lead  to  tragic outcomes  which  are
rarely understood within their tragic contexts.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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