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   %DIFFICULT CHALLENGING OPEN HONEST DIALOGUES SEX 070930
%INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY 070930
%MODALITY ETHICS CONTROLS PROPRIETIES PRESCRIPTIONS 070930
%DESCRIPTION PORNOGRAPHY RAPE DOMINATION CONTROLLER 070930
%DOMINATION UNHEALTHY ALIENATIVE VIOLENCE VIOLATION 070930
%POSSESSION SALE SLAVES ABUSES PROFITS AUTHENTICITY 070930

Open,  honest,  informed and candid discussions of human's
Differing-Sexual: possibilities,  desires,  needs,  hopes,
expectations,  and  fears  ---   are  troubling  for  many
Differing-People for various reasons.

 1.  Domineering people  Fear-the-Vulnerability  which  is
present   in   Healthy-And-Honest   Sexual-Intimacies  and
Otherwise-Intimate-Relationships.

 2.  Immature  and  provincial  people  fear  that  their:
ignorance,   biases,   assumptions and prejudices Will-Be-
Exposed ---   and  they  will thereby be  made  vulnerable
because of their Areas-of-Weakness.

 3.  Technocrats,  legalists,  perfectionists, judgmental-
ists and greedy-people   fear intimate relationships which
cannot  be well-Controlled-By-Them  in  Their-Own-Special-
Ways   ---    While-Maintaining-Personal-    And-Communal-
Integrity.

 4.  Rich-and-Powerful    people   fear   talking    about
situations in which  their  advantages of Wealth-and-Power
are relatively Insignificant-and-Meaningless.

 5.  Colluders who are playing  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-
Self-Deception  fear talking about topics which impinge on
being honest  about the  Beginnings-And-Endings  of  human
lives ---  about human mortality --- About-Which they tend
to Be-in-Denial.

 6.  Perfectionists fear to deal with  Intimate-Reflexive-
Relationships which can neither be Perfected-Nor-Purified-
Unilaterally ---  while maintaining  Personal-And-Communal
Integrations-And-Integrities.

 7.  Social-Climbers  fear  to be open  and  honest  about
their  Kinds-of-Preoccupations   within  contexts  wherein
their Preoccupations-with-Domination  --- are likely to be
exposed to the light of day.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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