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 %DOMINEERING PEOPLE DIFFICULTIES INTIMATE ROMANTIC 070918
%SEXUAL OTHER PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS TRANSCEND GOOD 070918
 %EVIL DEVIL QUESTIONS CONTROL SUPERIORITY INFERIOR 070918
 %HIERARCHY RANKS RANK ORDERING POSITION LUXURY GOD 070918

Domineering-People  have difficulties in dealing with:

               (1) Intimate,
               (2) Romantic,
               (3) Sexual,
               (4) Letting-Go-of-Defensive,
               (5) Letting-Go-of-Technocratic, and
               (6) Affirming-Truly-Reflexive ---

                    Personal-Relationships

      which  TRANSCEND-QUESTIONS  which are related to:

                      (1) Domination,
                      (2) Control,
                      (3) Superiority,
                      (4) Inferiority,
                      (5) Hierarchies,
                      (6) Rank/Orderings;

           And involve in essential gracious ways:

                      (1) Cooperation,
                      (2) Colaborations,
                      (3) Balance,
                      (4) Mutuality,
                      (5) Openness,
                      (6) Honesty,
                      (7) Empathy,
                      (8) Sympathy,
                      (9) Generosity,
                     (10) Hospitality.

In such situations Domineering-People's Preoccupations are
un-masked and their lack of authenticity,  integrity,  and
humanity are revealed;  with embarrassing results for many
of those who are involved in the revealing situations.

True-Lovers reveal themselves by  the Gracious-and-Nuanced
ways  in  which they deal Non-Violently and Non-Coercively
with Alienative-Responses of Domineering-People to  Being-
Embarrassed  by the  Reflexive-Relationships   Pointed-to-
Above.

True-Lovers recognize the differences between  Alienative-
Responses  and  Reconciling-Responses  to  the  Reflexive-
Relationships Pointed-to-Above.    The  differences  often
have   to  do  with  the  Avoidance-of  or  Celebration-of
Alienative-Technocratic    Tools-of-Domination    such as:

                       (1) Dishonesty,
                       (2) Pretense,
                       (3) Arrogance,
                       (4) Hubris,
                       (5) Unilateral-Actions,
                       (6) Secrecy,
                       (7) Terrorism,
                       (8) Torture,
                       (9) Demands,
                      (10) Commands,
                      (11) Prescriptions,
                      (12) Proscriptions,
                      (13) Purifications,
                      (14) Self-Righteousness,
                      (15) Hierarchies,
                      (16) Rank-Orderings,
                      (17) Ranks-and-Orders.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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