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  %FORBIDDEN ESSENTIALS OF TRUE CONFLICT RESOLUTION 070916
%TABOO ESSENTIAL FOUNDATION PERSONAL COMMUNAL GRACE 070916
 %INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES AUTHENTICITY HOSPITALITY 070916
%CIVILITY CIVILIZATION DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE SHARING 070916

True-Conflict-Resolution will include taking the following
steps ---  which are TABOO to the Most-Loyal supporters of
Domination-Systems ---  because the following  steps  will
expose  the  ways in which  the  Most-Loyal  supporters of
Domination-Systems and the communities which they dominate
--- lack Personal-an-Communal Integrity:

 1.  Clarifying  how  the  people  in  conflict Differ-as-
Regards Their-Most-Influential:   Assumptions,  Attitudes,
Biases,  Prejudices, Aspirations, Hopes, Fears, Aversions,
Taboo-Topics, Anxieties, etc.

 2.  Clarifying how  the  people  in  conflict  Differ-as-
Regards  Their-Most-Important:   Committments,  Covenants,
Promises,   Affirmations,   Forms-of-Trust,   Convictions,
Bonding, Fellowship-Groups, Beliefs, Doctrines, etc.

 3.  Clarifying  how  the  people  in  conflict Differ-as-
Regards  what  they  are  most  willing  to:    Let-go-Of,
Sacrifice,  Consume, Trash, Destroy, Be-Indifferent-About,
Deplete, Ignore, etc.

 4.  Clarifying the differing extents to which the  people
in conflict are participants in:  Greed,  Collusive-Games-
of-Mutual-Self-Deception,      Distrust,    Addiction-and-
Codependence,  Pretentious-Independence,  and Pretentious-
Invulnerability.

 5.  Clarifying  the different ways in which the people in
conflict engage in Alienative-Patterns-of-Behaviors.

 6.  Clarifying the different ways in which the people  in
conflict  avoid  certain Verbal-Affirmations of  what they
most-believe/trust, and Action-Demonstrations of what they
most-believe/trust;  with clarifications of their  reasons
and motivations.

Domineering-People are  unable to participate  Openly-And-
Honestly in facilitating  the above Forms-Of-Clarification
---  because doing so will make  them  VULNERABLE  and  so
threaten   their  own  and  their  supporters  pretentious
patterns  of:   Security,   Invulnerability,   Dishonesty,
Arrogance,   Self-Righteousness,  Superiority,  Collusive-
Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception,    Dominance,     Control,
Violence, etc.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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