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  %ALIENATIVE VICES CONTRASTING RECONCILING VIRTUES 070913
%VIOLENT BEHAVIOR PATTERN ESSENTIALLY INTRUSIVE SIN 070913
  %EVIL DYSFUNCTIONAL ADDICTIVE CODEPENDENT DEMANDS 070913
%COMMAND PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS CONFORMITY GOD 070913
%DEVIL KNOWING WHO IS ENEMY STRANGER UNKNOWN FRIEND 070913
%ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS SUPERIOR PEOPLE SERVE 070913

How-Alienative a Behavior-Pattern is --- depends primarily
upon  how  Essentially-Intrusive the  Behavior-Pattern  is
into   Other-Peoples'   Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom  that  are
Creatively-Private in True-Ways which are Essentially-Non-
Alienative.

Behavior-Patterns are Essentially-Intrusive to the  extent
that they  entail the FOLLOWING-VIOLENT-ACTIVITIES in ways
which True-Lovers cannot  Graciously-Avoid  in  their Non-
Violent-Ways  of Being-Together within the  Gracious-Ways-
of-Shalom.

The following are Ten Essentially-Intrusive Behaviors:

 1.  Contentious-Inhibitions of Open-and-Honest-Dialogues.
 2.  Violent-Destructions of Sanctuaries for True-Dialogue
 3.  Violent-Disintegrations of Gracious-Integrations.
 4.  Inhibitions of the Sharing of Complementary-Truths.
 5.  Inhibitions of Creative New-Forms-of-Integrations.
 6.  Creating-Distractions from Integrative-Efforts.
 7.  Creating-Misleading-Questions and Demanding-Answers.
 8.  Demanding-that-Vulnerable People-Chose-Exclusive-Side
 9.  Demanding-that-Vulnerable People-Properly-Conform.
10.  Unbalanced-Concentrating of Great-Powers-and-Wealth.

The  FOLLOWING-NON-VIOLENT-ACTIVITIES of  True-Lovers  are
NOT Essentially-Intrusive --- because Greedy-Concentrators
of  Powers-and-Wealth  can  Graciously-Avoid   Alienative-
Effects   by   Letting-Go   of   their   own   Alienative-
Technocratic-Tools  of Domination-and-Unilateral-Control.
Be LOVE's peacemakers.

The Following are TEN Essentially-NON-Intrusive Behaviors:

 1.  Speaking Complementary-Truths to Power-Concentrations
 2.  Speaking Complementary-Truths to Wealth-Concentration
 3.  Revealing Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.
 4.  Unmasking Demonstrations-of-Greed-and-Hoarding.
 5.  Articulating/Demonstrating Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom.
 6.  Demonstrating True-Security within Intimate-Relations
 7.  Demonstrating Distributive-Justice in LOVE's-Ways.
 8.  Demonstrating Creative Authentic Personal Integrity.
 9.  Demonstrating Reconciling Authentic Hospitality.
10.  Demonstrating LOVE's Non-Violent Conflict-Resolution.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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