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%DESCRIBE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN HEALTHY RESPONSES EGO 070912
 %HEART MIND WILL ALIENATE BEHAVIORS OFFENSIVE EVIL 070912
%DYSFUNCTIONAL ADDICTIVE BEHAVIOR CODEPENDENT WANTS 070912
     %NEEDS ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL 070912
 %FOUNDATIONS INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES AUTHENTICITY 070912
%VIRTUE VICES RESIST EXCOMMUNICATION ESTRANGEMENT I 070912

See the preceding essays for related considerations.

NON-VIOLENT-RESISTANCE is      VIOLENT-RESISTANCE is
NON-ALIENATIVE-RESISTANCE      ALIENATIVE-RESISTANCE
    Flowing-From                   Flowing-From:

Generosity & Sharing           Greed & Hoarding
Hospitality & Healing          Concentrating-Powers
Reconciliation/Cooperation     Choosing-Opposing-Sides
Forming-Collaborative-Efforts   Forming-Opposing-Coalitions
Letting-Go-of-Technocracies    Clinging-to-Technocracies
Letting-Go-of-Technocrats      Clinging-to-Technocrats
Honoring-Reconcilers           Honoring-Technocrats
Trusting-Reconcilers           Trusting-Technocrats
Risking-Authentic-Intimacies   Distrusting-Risk-Intimacies
Distributive-Justice           Concentrating-Wealth
Relaxing-in-Shalom's Ways      Tense-Concentrations
Relaxed-Authentic-Affirmations Contentious-Negations
Gracious-Honest-Integrations   Contentious-Polarizations
Paradoxical-Affirmations       Contentious-Dichotomization
Balanced-Sharing               Unbalanced-Extremism
Open-and-Honest-Dialogue       Pretentious-Secrecy
Active-Listening-to-Others     Preaching-at-Others
Civility-and-Being-Polite      Being-Fearfully-Defensive
Knowing-Complementary-Truths   Knowing-God-Absolute-Truth
True-Diversity-Tolerance       True-Diversity-Intolerance
Respecting-Creativity          Fearing-Creative-Revelation
Speaking-Truths-to-Powers      Concealing-Truths-in-Powers
Revealing-Integrative-Truths   Concealing-Integrate-Truth
Giving-Powers-to-Poor-People   Robbing-Poor-People-Power
Encouraging-True-Vulnerability Abusing-Vulnerable-Peoples
Risking-Vulnerable-Intimacies  Avoiding-Vulnerability
Flirting-within-Intimacies     Seeking-Invulnerability
Being-Humble-Servants          Controlling-Humbled-Servant
Demonstrating-True-Humility    Demonstrating-Arrogance
Being-Cooperative              Being-In-Control/Dominant
Sharing what is in hand        Getting more to Hold-On-To
Clinging to Integrations       Facilitating Disintegration
Clinging to Integrities        Destroying Integrities

We  cannot  reasonably  hope  to make and  carry  out wise
decisions   if   we   cannot   recognize   the   different
motivations, intentions and  expectations which are  often
associated with what is pointed  to on the left above;  as
compared to what is pointed to on the right above.

Recognizing those differences is made especially  hard  if
collusive games of mutual self deception are playing major
roles in our communities ---  and we are unaware  of  what
major roles they are playing --- and we are unaware of how
those roles  are  being  played  by The-Powers-That-Be  as
Dominant-Factors in our communities.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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