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%DESCRIBE DESCRIPTION TRUE LOVER TRAGIC HEALTHY GOD 070901
  %DOMINEERING PEOPLE UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP MATURE 070901
  %MOTIVATIONS DESIRES AUTHENTIC REVEALING INTIMACY 070901
   %RISK MANAGE SHARING COST VULNERABILITY SECURITY 070901
%DEMONSTRATE VIRTUE VICES PERSONAL INTEGRITY SAFETY 070901
 %COMMUNAL INTEGRITY HEALTH COMMON GOOD SHALOM DEAL 070901

THE following descriptions of True-Lovers and  Tragically-
Domineering-People; are accurate Only-to-the-Extent-That:

A.  True-Lovers  are  Mature-as-True-Lovers  living within
Communities  which  are   Reasonably-Free  of   Pervasive-
Patterns-of-Domination.

B.  Domineering-People   Fear-the-Possibility  of   having
their lacks of Integrity-and-Authenticity EXPOSED/UNMASKED
and  Compulsively-Cling  to  Hopes-for  and   Promises-of:
Security-Through-Domination-and-Invulnerability.

Our actual realities are usually complicated by variations
from the  above  over-simplified  suggestions  about  both
Individuals-and-Communities and  as regards  environmental
and  particular  circumstantial  variations  not mentioned
above.

In light  of the above comments,  consider  the  following
descriptions:

1.  True-Lovers   Authentically-Desire   to   Demonstrate-
Virtues  such  as:   Open-and-Honest-Dialogue,   Personal-
Integrity-and-Authenticity,    Hospitality-and-Generosity,
Healthy-Forms-of-Intimacy,  Being-Civil-and-Polite,  True-
Resolutions-of-Ideological-Conflicts,    Commitments    to
Complementary-Values-Ideals-and-Principles,  etc.    These
are what truly motivate and guide True-Lovers.

True-Lovers  are  NOT  guided,   motivated  or  dominated
primarily-by:   Prescriptions,   Proscriptions,  Controls,
Coercion, Violence, Fears, Anxieties, Taboos,  Addictions,
Codependent-Supporters,    Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-
Deception --- or supporters of such realities.

2.  Domineering-People       in       Fear-and-Desperation
Demonstrate-Incoherent-Manifestations  of    Technocratic-
Attempts-to-Unilaterally-Achieve-Security         through:
Invulnerability,    Pretense,   Dishonesty,    Misleading-
Behaviors     Secrecy,     Forms-of-Personal-and-Technical
Superiority,  Coalitions, Power-and-Wealth-Concentrations,
Defeating-Strange-and-Evil-Enemies,  A-Certain-Simplistic-
ABSOLUTE-TRUTH,    Exclusivity,   Confidence,    Tenacity,
Resource-Consumption, and Resource-Depletion.

Domineering-People are NOT guided,  motivated or  informed
by any Formal-or-Informal  COMMITTMENTS  to:  personal-or-
communal   integrations-or-integrities,     complementary-
truths,   authenticity,   honesty,   balance,   mutuality,
hospitality, generosity,  distributive-justice,  civility,
the-common-good,  healthy-relationships,   reconciliation,
healing,   communal-health,  global-health,  OR long-term-
sustainability   within  God's   finite   space-ship-earth
circling God's finite sun at the  center  of  this finite-
solar-system.    Domineering-people's   primary fears  and
committments  make all the  just-articulated  contrasting-
committments be TABOO.

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