This is http://www.essayz.com/b0708171.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %UNCHANGING DOMINEERING PEOPLE ABSOLUTE TRUTH FALL 070817 %ORIGINAL SINNERS ALIENATORS ESTRANGEMENT CONFUSION 070817 %AVOID VULNERABILITY GRACIOUS HOSPITALITY ACCEPTED 070817 %ACCEPT INTIMACY PRETENTIOUS INVULNERABILITY ALIENS 070817 %UNILATERAL HUBRIS ARROGANCE SUPERIORITY FRAGMENTS 070817 %DICHOTOMIES POLARIZATION CONFLICTS CONTENTIOUSNESS 070817 Domineering-People often presume that they can be Unchanging-Agents-of-Change who can Avoid-Being-Changed by Their-Relationships with Different-other-People. Such-Presumptuousness is Disintegrative-of-Self-and-Other; initiating & maintaining Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self- Deception which Tragically-Change BOTH Self-and-Other. Domineering-People often presume that they can be Invulnerable-in-Isolation which is Alienation-From-Others as the Essence-of-their-Relationships-with-Others which lays the foundations for Tragically-Simplistic-Idealism that revolves around the vortices of Mutual-Domination which only True-Lovers see clearly for what it is. People who are committed to Playing-Out-to-their-Tragic- Ends Their-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception can not learn from: 1. Their own mistakes. 2. Other people's mistakes. 3. Their own experiences. 4. Other people's experiences. 5. Reading classic collections of literature. 6. Being intimately involved with different others. 7. Being involved in open and honest dialogues. 8. People who are poor, humble, honest, servants. 9. Creative patterns of gracious integration. 10. Truly-Reverent-People. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================