This is http://www.essayz.com/b0708121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %STRATEGY DOMINEERING PEOPLE APPEAR BEING CONTROL 070812 %SITUATIONS INTEGRATION DISINTEGRATION VIOLENCE GOD 070812 %GREED CONFLICT CONTENTIOUS ARROGANCE PRETENSE EVIL 070812 %COOPERATION COLABORATION HUMILITY AUTHENTICITY CAN 070812 %DECEPTION POLARIZATION DICHOTOMIES ATTACK EXCLUDE 070812 %HONESTY OPEN DIALOGUE LISTEN GRACIOUS HOSPITALITY 070812 Domineering-People prefer to APPEAR-to-Be-in-CONTROL in situations where Realities-Suggested-Below On-The-Right Are-Prevalent; rather than those On-The-Left below Are- Prevalent: Cooperations Conflicts Colaborations Contentiousness Humility Arrogance Authenticity Pretense Honesty Deception Open-and-Honest-Dialogue Polarizations Active-Honest-Listening Dichotomizations Gracious-Hospitality Attacks versus Defenses Sharing-Intimacies Win/Lose-Competitions Public-Meetings Exclusive-Clubs Inclusive-Services Exclusive-Memberships Including-Strangers Eliminating-Strangers Expanding-Participation Eliminating-Losers True-Conflict-Resolutions Eliminating-Evil-Ones Integrations Dis-Integrations Integrities Incoherences Thinking Indoctrinations Serving-Each-Other Victimizing-Each-Other Forming-Consensuses Imposing-Conformity Informal-Intimacies Formal-Rationalizations Authentic-Presences Power-Competitions Exposing-Collusive-Games MSD Winning-Collusive-Games MSD Revealing-Invulnerable-People Being-Invulnerable-People Domineering-People create situations such as suggested above on the right --- In-Order-To-Augment the possibilities for them to Appear-to-be-In-Control --- when they are NOT-In-Control of the Chaos-They-Are-Augmenting. In-Order-to-Understand-and-Mitigate The-Prevalence of the Situations-On-The-Right above --- we need to Perceive-How- Those-Situations provide fertile contexts for Alienative- Acts-of-Domination on the part of the Loyal-Supporters of our various kinds of Domination-Systems among us and within us. When we understand the above Tragic-Roots-of-Domination- and-Disintegration --- we may be motivated to Commit- Ourselves profoundly to Graciously-Augment the Situations- Indicated-Above-On-The-Left. Neither kind of Situations-Indicate evolve accidentally without any kind of intentionality. Be aware and beware! The above Suggested-Intentions may be: Subconscious, Covert, Hidden and Sly. To PREVAIL-EFFECTIVELY our COUNTERVAILING-INTENTIONS need to be: Thoughtful, Conscious, Empathetic, Sympathetic, Publicly-Revealed and Systemic --- in ways which are based upon Reflexive- Systems-Analysis that transcend the Motivations-of- Domineering-People and Disintegrative-Domination-Systems. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================