This is http://www.essayz.com/b0708061.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RESIST TRUE LOVERS RECONCILING INTEGRATIVE EFFORTS 070806 %HOSPITALITY HOSPITALS HEALERS DOCTORS DISEASE SICK 070806 %CIVILITY CIVILIZATIONS RISE DECLINE FALL FALLEN 070806 %PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRATION INTEGRITIES COHERENT 070806 Domineering-People resist efforts by True-Lovers to help Domineering-People to deal Openly-and-Honestly with their Reflexive Relationships --- which entail various forms of Alienation. Domineering-People's-Resistance is appropriate when viewed from within their Paradigm-of-Domination --- since for them the following Alienative-Mean-Tools are ESSENTIAL Foundations-for-Ultimate-SUCCESS which must be "kept on the table" at all times: VIOLENCE CONTROLS DEMANDS COMMANDS LAWS JUDGES JUDGEMENTS LAWYERS DISHONESTY PRETENSES MASKS SECRECY COLLUSIONS CONSPIRACIES COALITIONS CONCENTRATIONS EXCLUSIONS PRISONS REWARDS PAY-OFFS BRIBES TRIBES ABUSES RAPE ADDICTIONS ADDICTS CODEPENDENTS INDEPENDENCE SUPERIORITY CREEDS DOCTRINES RITUALS FORMALITIES CONFORMITY REBELLIONS MOBS AMBIGUITY DOUBTS UNCERTAINTY VULNERABILITIES DISEASES INJURIES SYMPATHY EMPATHY SUSPICION DOUBTS FEARS ANXIETY GUNS BOMBS AIRPLANES MISSILES & SHIPS Knowing Who-is-Evil and Who-is-Good. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom. See b0708034.htm and < HREF="b0708041.htm">b0708041.htm. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================