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%GUIDE EVOLVING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP MUTUAL BALANCE 070725
 %DIRECT NET NATURES PARTICIPANTS RESPONSE NEGATIVE 070725
 %BLAME SHAME GUILT PUNISH THREAT ATTACK SCORE KEEP 070725
  %ATTACK DEFEND FORTRESS FORTIFY INSECURE DEFENSES 070725
%OPEN HONEST LISTENING DIALOGUE DIPLOMATIC TALK SIN 070725
%SUPERIOR EXCLUSIVITY ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT ALIEN 070725

Relationships evolve in ways that are directed by the Net-
Nature   of  all of  the  Participants'-Responses-to-Each-
Other:  Negative-or-Affirmative.

For Relationships to evolve in Affirmative-Ways; the  Net-
Affirmative-Responses of some must compensate for the Net-
Negative-Responses of others.

Responses  which  include:   Blaming,   Shaming,    Guilt-
Generation,  Punishments, Threats, Attacks, Score-Keeping,
Denigrations,  Domination, etc.  --- will thereby be moved
towards Net-Negative-Responses.

Responses which include:  Openness, Honesty,  Forgiveness,
Hospitality,  Civility,  Generosity,  Mutuality,  Balance,
Creativity, Imagination, ---  will thereby be moved toward
Net-Affirmative-Responses.

Healthy-Relationships evolve Creatively through Authentic-
Cooperative-Behaviors on the part of participants.

Un-Healthy-Relationships evolve Destructively through  the
Re-Cycling of:  Violence, Alienation,  Domination,  Greed,
Dishonesty,   Suspicions,  Self-Righteousness,  Arrogance,
Hubris,  Attacks,  Rejections,  Exclusivity,  and  related
other Vices.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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