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   %DOMINEERING PEOPLE SHIFT VICTIMS ATTENTION AWAY 070706
   %BUSY DIVERSION ANXIETIES FEARS CONCERNS WORRIES 070706
 %EASILY CONTROL APPEAR RELIABLE HONORABLE REVERENT 070706
 %DREAMS VISIONS ASPIRATIONS INSTINCTS HOPES LOVERS 070706
%MANDATES PLANS GOALS FORMALITIES LEADERS EVIL ONES 070706

    Domineering-People  find  ways to shift their Victims'
attention away from what Domineering-People Cannot-Control
With-True-Integrity   --   toward what  Domineering-People
Can-Most-Easily-Control;  or  Appear-to-Control,  in  some
Deceptive-Ways:

    From:                        Toward:

    Dreams                       Mandates
    Visions                      Unilateral-Plans
    Aspirations                  Corporations'-Goals
    Instincts                    Militarists'-Goals
    Hopes                        Fears
    Relaxation                   Anxieties
    Informalities                Formalities
    True-Lovers                  Domineering-Leaders
    Authentic-Authorities        Elected-Dominators
    Family-Integrations          Corporations'-Mergers
    Sanctuaries-for-All          Fortresses-for-rich-ones
    Distributive-Justice         Concentrating-Wealth
    Sharing-Powers               Concentrating-Powers
    Cooperation                  Conformity
    Creativity                   Copying
    Imagination                  Obedience
    Intimacy                     Loyalty
    Risk-Sharing                 Invulnerability
    True-Security                Being-Defensive
    True-Confessions             Indoctrinations
    Spontaneity                  Recitations
    Improvisations               Rigid-Traditions
    Friendships                  Contracts
    Intimacies                   Contentiousness

    When   considering  how  to   Describe-the-Differences
between  Healthy-Responses to Alienative-Behaviors and Un-
Healthy-Responses  to Alienative-Behaviors ---  we will do
well  to  keep the above  lists  of  Contrasting-Realities
Well-in-Mind.     Which of the above Contrasting-Realities
play  Prominent-Roles  in  each instance;   and  to  who's
advantage and to who's disadvantage.

    All  too  often  when  people  consider  responses  to
Alienative-Behaviors ---  All-of-the-Attention is given to
Demands-Made-by-Domineering-People   &  to   Disappointed-
Domineering-People ---  and  Little-Attention  is given to
the many  forms  of  Alienation Between/Among Domineering-
People  and their Vulnerable-Victims and/or to  Actual-or-
Potential-Mitigations of such Alienation ---  and to  what
leads to such Mitigations of such Alienation.

    When  we focus heavily upon determinations of who  was
right and who was wrong; who was good and who was evil ---
the  other determinations pointed to above are ignored  in
tragic ways which lead to further tragedies.

    Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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