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%MUTUALLY COMPLEMENTARY CONTRASTING PERSPECTIVES ID 070703
%POINTS VIEWS POINTING TOWARD TRUTHS TRUE LOVERS IT 070703
%OBJECTIVE OBJECTS OBJECTIONS INSENSITIVE AFFECTION 070703
%DETACHED INDIFFERENT TECHNOCRATIC PRESCRIPTION GOD 070703
%PROSCRIPTIONS OMNIPOTENT OMNISCIENT SCIENCE CHURCH 070703
  %EXACT PURE PURIFICATION SELF RIGHTEOUS ARROGANCE 070703

    True-Lovers demonstrate  to/for  each other ---  their
Cherished Many-Ways-of-Shalom in Falling-in-Love and their
New-Integrative-Ways-of-Letting-Go-Of/Escaping-From  their
Formerly-Cherished Disintegrative-Ways-of-Domination.

    Such Integrative-Ways-of-Letting-Go are Truly-Risky in
the  Presence of Still-Remembered/Honored  Disintegrative-
Ways-of-Dominion's  Concentrations-Of:   Wealth,    Power,
Luxuries, Privileges,  etc.   Others may not be Able/Ready
to Let-Go into the Unfamiliar-Pleasures/Risks of Mutually-
Managing the Great-Risks-of-Cooperating in the Presence of
The-Instinctive    Pleasures-and-Risks    of    Authentic-
Intimacies and Authentic-Sexual-Pleasures.  The boundaries
between the encountered Realms-of-Real-Living ---  are not
always  as  Sharp  and/or Unambiguous  as  they  are often
Conceived-and-Maintained by Domineering-People.

    In  Real-Living-and-Loving there are  many  Authentic-
Occasions   of:   Mutually-Complementary:   Uncertainties,
Doubts,   Truths,   Beliefs,   Principles,   Descriptions,
Experiences,  Points-of-View,  Perspectives,  Reflexivity,
etc.

    In the Deceptive-Lives of Domineering-People there are
many  demonstrations of Mutual:   Exclusivity,   Controls,
Demands, Commands, Prescriptions, Proscriptions, Violence,
Excommunications,  Alienation, Condemnations, Punishments,
Constraints,  Repressions, Suppressions, Alienation,  etc.
---   which  demonstrate the Consequences  of  Alienative-
Behaviors in many Tragic-Ways ---  for those who have Eyes
and  Wills to See-Clearly what is happening ---  from many
Mutually-Complementary   Perspectives  of  True-Lovers  in
LOVE.

    In  the Revealing-Lives of True-Lovers there are  many
demonstrations of Great-Mutual:  Inclusivity,  Relaxation,
Acceptance, Gifts, Hospitality, Descriptions,  Gentleness,
Reconciliations, Sharings, Redemptions, Healings, Returns,
Liberations,  Assistance,  Support, Peacemaking, etc.  ---
which  are terrifying to Loyal-Supporter-of  Domination's-
Ways of Concentrating Wealth-and-Powers --- for their  own
good alone in Alienative-Ways of Being-Together.

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    In  the  midst of the transitions which are  suggested
above  ---  Formerly-Domineering-People who would-be True-
Lovers  must  be both Wise-and-Prudent in  taking  greater
risks within evolving intimate relationships --- which may
entail other Formerly-Domineering-People who would-also-be
True-Lovers ---  But-Are-Not-Yet-Able  to Truly- Let-Go of
their Domineering-Instincts in Truly-Authentic-Ways.  What
supportive-guide-lines can help  all  who  are involved in
such transitions to avoid Simplistic-Tragic-Mistakes?

                            Seek to:

 1.  Make prudent and often gradual transitions together.

 2.  Know Unilateral-Haste as neither wise nor integrative

 3.  Offer Mutually-Complementary-Affirmations to all.

 4.  Confirm Mutually-Complementary-Affirmations with all.

 5.  Mitigate All-Preoccupations-with-Negations with all.

 6.  Mitigate All-Kinds-of-Alienative-Behaviors with all.

 7.  Be Prudently-Open-and-Honest with Due-Consideration.

 8.  Augment occasions of Generosity and Hospitality.

 9.  Augment Power/Wealth Sharing/Distribution for all.

10.  Honor occasions of Honesty, Authenticity & Humility

11.  Resolve conflicts through open and honest dialogues.

12.  Enjoy each other together within the Ways of Shalom.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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