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 %FACILITATE HEALTHY LISTENING OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE 070622
%REGARDING ALIENATIVE INITIATIVES UNILATERAL ACTION 070622
%ALIENATION PRESUME DISAGREE ANOTHER PERSON ENEMIES 070622
%DESCRIBES OWN EXPERIENCES PERCEPTIONS OBSERVATIONS 070622
%PERSONAL EMOTIONS EMPATHY SYMPATHY HONOR REVERENCE 070622
%VULNERABILITY COLLUSIVE GAME MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION 070622

We  are likely to generate or augment alienation  whenever
we  presume to disagree with another person's  description
of their own:

 1.  Experiences,
 2.  Perceptions,
 3.  Observations,
 4.  Perspectives,
 5.  Points-of-View,
 6.  Assumptions,
 7.  Beliefs,
 8.  Convictions,
 9.  Desires,
10.  Fears,
11.  Anxieties,
12.  Hopes,
13.  Dreams,
14.  Expectations,
15.  Aspirations, etc.

The  following  are  among  the  reasons  that  the  above
prediction may be fulfilled in various ways.

 1.  Only the describer can really know the above.
 2.  Only the describer can really own  the above.
 3.  The listener may not have asked for clarifications.
 4.  The listener may not have sought    confirmations.
 5.  What the listener owns --- may be quite different.
 6.  People's languages may be quite different.
 7.  People's inheritances may be quite different.
 8.  People's biases/prejudices may be quite different.
 9.  People's injuries/diseases may be quite different.
10.  People's limitations       may be quite different.

In  each instance it will be helpful to keep the above  in
mind  and to seek insights into how relevant each  of  the
above is to our current experiences in dialogues.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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