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   %MIRACULOUS DIFFERENCES MITIGATION IMPERFECTIONS 070620
  %SELF OTHER COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION 070620
 %ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS SUPERIOR BETTER GOOD 070620
%PERFECT PURITY PURIFICATIONS ELIMINATIONS EVIL ONE 070620
  %ACCURATE HELPFUL QUALITATIVE DESCRIPTIONS REVEAL 070620
%TRUE LOVERS PEACEMAKER NEIGHBORS AUTHENTIC HONESTY 070620

    True-Lovers  working  as  Effective-Peacemakers  daily
help  their  healthy  communities  to  avoid  ever  moving
anywhere  near affirming  the Alienative-Behavior-Patterns
of  Domineering-People  ---   who believe  that  they  can
Create-Security  by  Preparing-for-War  ---   preparations
which always involve Alienative-Behavior-Patters.

    One  of  the  Most-Difficult-Challenges  is  to  avoid
affirming  the Alienative-Behavior-Patterns of  Preparing-
For-War ---   while trying to Honor-the-Misguided-Sincere-
Efforts of ancestors who believed  sincerely  in the Myth-
of-Redemptive-Violence --- in its various Tragic-Forms.

    Honoring Sincere-but-Imperfect efforts of Sincere-but-
Imperfect  people  is  always a challenge,  especially  to
people living within the context  of  a community which is
dominated by efforts to rank-order people according to how
they are viewed as being either:


 1.  superior        or    inferior,
 2.  good            or    evil,
 3.  conformed       or    rebellious,
 4.  proper          or    improper,
 5.  loyal           or    traitorous,
 6.  agreeable       or    disagreeable,
 7.  obedient        or    disobedient,
 8.  blameless       or    guilty,
 9.  invulnerable    or    vulnerable,
10.  nice            or    crude, etc.


    How  are we avoid the above  alienative-behaviors  ---
and  the alienations which they generate ---   in  dealing
with our own and other people's imperfections?   All of us
are imperfect.    How we deal with imperfect  other people
--- will be how other people deal with us.

    How  can  we  avoid  encouraging  imperfections  while
tolerating   imperfections   in   other  people   and   in
ourselves?    What are the approaches, attitudes,  beliefs
and  assumptions of people who are successful  in  helping
people to eliminate imperfections ---  without engaging in
alienative-behaviors?   How are such people different from
Domineering-People who engage in many Alienative-Behaviors
while  trying to eliminate imperfections in others and  in
themselves?     We need to study,  describe and learn from
observing and understanding such miraculous differences!

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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