This is http://www.essayz.com/b0706161.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %LOYAL SUPPORTER DOMINATION SYSTEM CONDITIONAL LOVE 070616 %ACCEPT ACCEPTANCE INTO INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS EVIL 070616 %ULTIMATE CONCERNS TABOO TOOL MANIPULATE TECHNIQUES 070616 %MYTH REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE COERCION CONTROL RESCUES 070616 %UNILATERAL SALVATION REDEMPTION SACRIFICE SUPERIOR 070616 People who are preoccupied with issues of control and with being in control --- cannot accept other people into intimate relationships --- as they are. To be loyal to their Domination-Systems --- Domineering-People must use Conditional-Acceptance as a Tool-of-Manipulation; because for them Unconditional-Acceptance and Unconditional-Love are TABOO! Each instance of Unconditional-Acceptance of another person into Open-and-Honest-Dialogue --- is a violation of the Ultimate-Imperative of The-Domination-System == God! This is because the Prime-Directive is that each point of vulnerability in other persons be used to the fullest extent possible --- to achieve full-control over them. It is TABOO to fail to take full advantage of any point of vulnerability. Thus it is TABOO to accept any imperfect person into open and honest dialogue --- without first taking advantage of any imperfection which is available. Thus ALIENATION is guaranteed by The-Domination-System. Loyal supporters of The-Domination-System must alienate themselves from imperfect-vulnerable-people AND so LOYAL Supporters of The-Domination-System must keep themselves Perfect-and-Invulnerable --- so that nobody can take advantage of any imperfection in them. (Read the thoughtful book "How Good Must we Be?" by Harold S. Kushner.) Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================