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%TRUE LOVERS LEARN DISCERN MOST FULFILLING INTIMATE 070602
 %SIMILAR EQUIVALENT COMPETITION EXCLUSIVE DESCRIBE 070602
%TOLERATE CREATIVE DIVERSE DIFFERENCES ACCEPT GIFTS 070602
  %SANCTUARY DISTRIBUTIVE JUSTICE HARMONY LOVE GIVE 070602

     True  Lovers  often  learn/discern  that  their  most
fulfilling intimate  relationships  are  similar to and/or
equivalent to each other; rather than  in competition with
and/or  mutually-exclusive of-each-other.

    True   lovers  learn  how  to  describe   their   most
fulfilling  relationships  as  being  similar  to   and/or
equivalent   to   each   other   --- in   unique  mutually
complementary and supportive ways.   Neither Prescriptive-
nor-Proscriptive  Conformity  to any  external  unilateral
consideration  plays any central role in  their  authentic
relationships.

    Our    most   mutually-fulfilling   healthy   intimate
relationships --- often involve:

 1.  Letting-Go of most of our Fearful/Alienative Defenses

 2.  Perceiving ourselves honestly within wider contexts.

 3.  Tolerating creative and diverse gracious differences.

 4.  Accepting-and-Including different people.

 5.  Building sanctuaries for differing people.

 6.  Learning how to help each other let-go --- in Shalom.

 7.  Being with each other in letting-go in harmony/love.

 8.  Graciously Defending true rights of different people.

 9.  Helping each other fulfill many Visions of Shalom.

10.  Letting go of preoccupations with domination/violence

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and  Healthy)

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