This is http://www.essayz.com/b0705290.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DIFFERENCES CONTRASTS BETWEEN TRUE LOVERS CONTROL 070529 %DOMINEERING LOYAL SUPPORTERS DOMINATION SYSTEM GOD 070529 %UNILATERAL ULTIMATE CONCERNS POWERS WEALTH FEARS 070529 %INITIATIVE INDEPENDENCE DEPENDENCE INTERDEPENDENCE 070529 %SUPERIOR CASTE RANK ORDERING PECKING ORDER ACCEPTS 070529 %INCLUSION EXCLUSION EXCOMMUNICATION REJECTED EVIL 070529 How do Domineering-People and True-Lovers "differ"? Let us begin with some helpful initial observations: There are Many-REALMS within which Different-People disagree about what is an Honorable-Sense of: enough, adequacy, tolerance, sufficiency, agreement, satisfactory, competency, forbearance, patience, leniency, harmony, acceptance, concord, grace, balance, concert, unity, agreement, favor, approval, union, mutuality, etc. Those Many-REALMS Include: Possessions Control Luxuries Land Housing Clothing Transportation Heating Conformity Education Profits Stocks Bonds Money Authority Influence Power Wealth Fuels Energy Independence Oil Coal Interdependence Gas Gasoline Boundaries Fences Walls Compartments Virtues Rules Regulations Vices Definitions Prescriptions Ethics Descriptions Parables Within each of the Above-Realms there are often differences over what is a Honorable-Sense of: enough, adequacy, tolerance, sufficiency, agreement, satisfactory, competency, forbearance, patience, leniency, harmony, acceptance, concord, grace, balance, concert, unity, agreement, favor, approval, union, mutuality, etc. True-Lovers are often able to agree well on :enough, adequacy, tolerance, sufficiency, agreement, satisfactory, competency, forbearance, patience, leniency, harmony, acceptance, concord, grace, balance, concert, unity, agreement, favor, approval, union, mutuality, etc. Domineering-People rarely can agree well on :enough, adequacy, tolerance, sufficiency, agreement, satisfactory, competency, forbearance, patience, leniency, harmony, acceptance, concord, grace, balance, concert, unity, agreement, favor, approval, union, mutuality, etc. Domineering-People because of their disagreements are often: Violent, Contentious, Destructive, Polarizers, Dichotomizers, Disintegrators, Arrogant, Pretentious, Dishonest, Self-Righteous, Incoherent, Confused, Ignorant, Simplistic, Tragic and Deadly. True-Lovers because of their agreements are in contrast: Gentle, Agreeable, Constructive, Peacemakers, Harmonizers, Integrators, Humble, Authentic, Helpful, Honest, Reconcilers, Coherent, Describers, Prudent, Wise, Profound, Hopeful and Lively in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================