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 %RECOGNIZE ROOTS TRAGIC EFFECTS DOMINEERING PEOPLE 070426
%VARIOUS REFLEXIVE REALITIES RELATIONSHIPS RELATION 070426
%ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT REPRESSION SUPPRESSION GOD 070426
%DEMAND COMMAND COMPULSION CONTROL CONFLATE CONFUSE 070426
 %PREOCCUPY PROVINCIAL EXCLUSION IDOLATRY COLLUSION 070426
  %REJECTION BANISHMENT EXCOMMUNICATION SUPERIORITY 070426

    We may be helpful by Seeking-to-Recognize  the various
ways in which Domineering-Attitudes-and-Demonstrations may
Lead-us-into-Tragedies --- THROUGH the  Tragic-Effects  of
the    Various-Reflexive-Realities    Pointed-To    and/or
Suggested-By the words in the columns below:

         Alienations,      Estrangements;

         Repressions,      Suppressions;

         Demands,          Commands;

         Compulsions,      Controls;

         Conflations;      Confusions;

         Preoccupations,   Provincialisms;

         Exclusivity,      Idolatry;

         Collusions,       Addictions;

         Codependencies,   Concentrations;

         Objections,       Inhibitions;

         Rejections,       Banishments;

         Forgetting,       Neglecting;

         Ignoring,         Sidelining;

         Distractions,     Business;

         Indifference,     Insensitivity.

         Bonding$,         Binding$.

    Truly-Creative-Cooperation   is  impossible   in   the
absence  of  enough people who are   TRULY:  free,  ready,
willing,    able,    present,    interested,    qualified,
communicating, dialogues, informed, empowered --- and free
of  much that is pointed to and/or suggested by the  above
words.

    The   import  of  the  realities  pointed  to   and/or
suggested  by the above words ---  are often be  perceived
differently ---  when  perceived from the  perspectives of
different:

    individuals,      couples,           groups,

    relationships,    organizations,     institutions,

    religions,        philosophies,      professions,

    businesses,       states,            corporations,

    wealth-states,    nations,           power-states,

    ideologies,       health-states,     etc.

    All of the above need to  be considered within various
above-mentioned-contexts ---   taking care to keep in mind
the    differences   between/among   various    Realms-of-
Relationships   and  between/among  the  Elements-Present-
Therein:

(a)  Objective-Relationships,
         Having-Possible-Objective-Evolutions,

(b)  Technical-Problems ---
         Offering-Possible-Technical-Solutions,

(c)  Reflexive-Relationships,
         Having-Possible-Humane-Evolutions,

(d)  Human-Dilemmas,
         Calling-for-Balanced-Mutual-Conflict-Resolutions,

(e)  Subjective-and-Intimate-Relationships,
         Having-Possible-Evolutions-in-Shalom's-Ways,

(f)  Philosophical-Spiritual-and-Religious  Relationships,
         Having-Possible-Evolutions-in-Shalom's-Ways,

(g)  Ultimate-Fears-Concerns-Ideals-Values-and-Virtues.

     Each-Kind-of-Relationship is important Within its own
Particular-Context.

     Each-Kind-of-Relationship      Needs-to-be-Dealt-With
Truly-Honestly within its own Particular-Context.

     Tragically-Bitter-Fruits grow  within  contexts where
people Play-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception about
the kinds of Contexts-and-Elements that are present; e.g.:

     1.  Trying   to  use  Purely-Technical-Procedures  to
"solve" the "technical-problems"  which Seem-to-be-Present
within the contexts of Un-Resolved  Dilemmas-and-Conflicts
Between-and-Among people of contrasting: Races, Religions,
Nations,  Cultures,  Technologies,  Life-Styles,  Beliefs,
etc.

     2.  Trying to Unilaterally-Resolve-Conflicts  through
the use of SUPERIOR: Power, Wealth, Force, Violence, Guns,
Bombs,  Airplanes,  Missiles,  Nuclear-Weapons, Knowledge,
Threats, Intelligence, Cultures, Insights, Understandings,
Science and Certainty.

     3.  Trying   to  Unilaterally-Impose-Solutions   upon
people  who did not participated graciously in  Selecting-
the-Solutions   and/or  in  Mutually-Saying-YES   to   the
Selected-Solutions.

     4.  Trying  to   Unilaterally-Impose  Upon-Others ---
Beliefs and/or Labels pertaining to:

         Any Cast-System of Rank-Ordering;
         Who-is-Superior,   Who-is-Inferior;
         Who-is-Master, Who-is-Slave;
         Who-is-Friend, Who-is-Enemy;
         Who-is-Good,   Who-is-Evil;
         Who-are-God's  Favorite-Persons;
         Who-is-God's   Favorite-Person;
         Who-is-God's   Enemy;
         Who-is-Devil's Home.

     5.  Trying to Unilaterally-Impose-upon-Others Beliefs
and/or Standards pertaining to:

         What Complementary-New-Truths-May-Be-Revealed.
         What Mutually-Exclusive-Truths-May-be-Spoken.
         What Ancient-Questions Must Be-Answered-First.

         What New-Questions Must-Not Be-Framed.
         What New-Questions Must-Not Be-Foci-of-Dialogue.

         What New-Questions Can-Now  Be-Well-Integrated.
         What New-Questions Can-Now  Be-Well-Responded-To.

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     See the following essay for some concluding comments.

     Be  Graciously-Together in the   Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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