This is http://www.essayz.com/b0704151.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %EXTERNAL INTERNAL REALITIES IDEAL FORMS REFLEXIVE 070415 %DIALECTIC OPEN HONEST AUTHENTIC RISKY INTIMACY SEX 070415 %INTEGRITY AUTHENTICITY AUTHORITY HOLY SPIRIT GRACE 070415 %IDEAL FORMS PERFECTION PURIFICATION PURITY LOVERS 070415 %TRUE LOVERS TRULY BALANCED STABLE ROBUST MUTUALITY 070415 Domineering-Leaders in all kinds of groups find it to their Special-Greedy-Advantage to encourage their followers to be Externally-Motivated-and-Guided --- thereby concentrating power into the hands of Domineering- Leaders who are also Externally-Motivated by other Thoughtless-Domineering-Leaders who are Playing-Collusive- Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception --- with all others who are like them in Unknown-Ways. Externally Motivated-and-Guided people can be dominated relatively easily --- as noted in some of the essays just before this one. In addition to the Realities-Known-By such Externally- Motivated-and-Guided people --- there are Non-External- Realities which are INTERNAL, REFLEXIVE, DIALECTICAL, and KNOWN-IN: OPEN, HONEST, MUTUAL and BALANCED DIALOGUE. Such additional realities include Non-External: Integrity, Authenticity, Authority, Holy-Spirit, Shalom, Hope, Faith, Grace, Love, etc. The above are not External-Ideal-Forms which can be imposed by force by Domineering-People. The above INTERNAL-REALITIES exist INTERNALLY, inside of Personal-Relationships which demonstrate the above additional realities. In the ABSENCE of such Personal-Relationships which demonstrate the above INTERNAL-REALITIES --- it is virtually impossible to find and acknowledge the reality of such INTERNAL-REALITIES which exist INTERNALLY, inside of Personal-Relationships which demonstrate the above additional realities. They do not exist elsewhere as Ideal-Forms which Domineering-People can impose from outside of Authentic-Personal-Relationships. Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================