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  %GROUP COMMUNAL INTIMACY RISKS DEMONSTRATE SHALOM 070407
 %WAYS PATHS INTEGRATION INTEGRITIES ONLY EXTENT IT 070407
%ALL PARTICIPANTS TRULY FREE WITHDRAW NOT SAFE LOVE 070407
  %MOST VULNERABLE FRIEND SEXUAL BUSINESS POLITICAL 070407
 %CLASS SCHOOL GREED COLLUSIVE GAMES SELF DECEPTION 070407

    Group/Communal activities which entail  Intimacy/Risks
demonstrate Shalom's-Ways, Integrations and Integrities --
Only-to-the-Extent  that  All-Participants are  Moment-by-
Moment Truly-Free-to-Withdraw ---  if they feel that their
level of Intimacy/Risk is not  safe for them  ---  or  for
another person who  is Excessively-Vulnerable  and Likely-
to-be-Dominated.

    The  above  is true for most  kinds  of Group/Communal
activities.   It is dangerous to thoughtlessly take it for
granted  that  it is not true in any  particular  kind  of
activity;   e.g.,   without  consulting some of  the  most
vulnerable  people  who  are  involved  in  that  kind  of
activity;   e.g.,   friendships and  personal  intimacies,
sexual   activities,   business   activities,    political
activities,   classroom activities,  vacation  activities,
etc.

    The presence within a Group/Community of  Domineering-
People,  Greed,  Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception,
Concentrations of Wealth/Power,  Mental-Illness,  Medical-
Illnesses,    Provincialism,   Isolationism,    Ignorance,
Confusion,  Terror, Terrorism,  Violence,  Controllers ---
all  heighten  the importance of understanding  the  above
with empathetic and sympathetic hearts and concerns.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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