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 %DIFFERENT UNQUESTIONED ASSUMPTIONS COLLUSION TRUE 070404
 %PLAYING GAMES ATTITUDES PATTERNS BELIEF PARADIGMS 070404
 %CONCEITED SELF CONFIDENCE ARROGANCE SIMPLE HUBRIS 070404
%HOW ESCAPE LIBERATE EDUCATE PROVINCIAL PERSPECTIVE 070404
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    Different-People who have grown up, been raised in and
been educated within different: cultures, religions, work,
national  and  business  contexts ---   have  internalized
different patterns of UNQUESTIONED: assumptions, attitudes
and  beliefs  ---  and so Frame-Questions-Differently  and
with  confidence  that Their-Way is the Only-Possible-Way;
especially  if  Domineering-People have  Been-Dominant  in
their past and have Played-Many-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-
Self-Deception in Dominant-Ways --- so passing them on.

    How  then  are  such people to  Become-Liberated  from
their Invisible: Prisons, Boxes, Traditions, Games, Traps,
Collusions,   etc?     They  may fear and  resist  such  a
liberation!

    Attacks upon  their  prisons will only  heighten their
fears!   Their cherished homes may be their prisons!

    From-Their-Prisons they must discern Gracious-New-Ways
that  appear  in Non-Threatening-Ways that  are  evidently
TRULY-NOT: violent, coercive, destructive, disintegrative,
exclusive, alienative, etc. ---  and so are ATTRACTIVE and
Seen-As-Desirable.

    Our-Dilemma is to find ways to recognize --- that each
other is operating with different TACIT-Assumptions-Views-
Perspectives-Attitudes-Beliefs-Convictions   and  then  to
Graciously-Seek-to-Elicit articulations of what is Tacitly
Obvious  ---  but not recognized as an Origins-of-Conflict
because that which is Tacitly-Obvious is Not-So-In-Common.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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