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  %ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS FOR HEALTHY OBJECTIVE LOVE 070331
 %INTIMATE NEIGHBORLY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS SEXUAL 070331
 %FRIENDSHIP INTIMACIES SANCTUARIES FORTRESS LOVERS 070331
  %REFLEXIVE INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES HONESTY TRULY 070331
   %COHERENT TRANSPARENCY AUTHENTICITY ROBUST UNITY 070331
%SUBJECTIVE COMPLEMENTARY HEISENBERG UNCERTAINTY IT 070331

    Objectivity is appropriate,  helpful and a virtue only
to the extent that we are dealing with objects which  have
no  will,   intentionality and ability to make  decisions.
Even  within  such a realm,  certainty in  objectivity  is
possible  only within the context of the truths which  are
described   by  the  Heisenberg-Uncertainty-Principle   of
Quantum  Physics and Wave-Particle-Packets of Energy which
have both wave and particle aspects.

    Exclusive-Objectivity  is inappropriate and  tragically
misleading in simplistic way ---  to the extent that we are
dealing  with  Reflexive-Relationships with  beings  which
have  will,   intentionality  and  the  ability  to   make
decisions  about  our and  their  Reflexive-Relationships;
e.g., in dealing with:

 1.  Yet-to-be-born infants,
 2.  Newly-born infants,
 3.  Children,
 4.  Young-People,
 5.  Adolescents,
 6.  Young-Adults,
 7.  Middle-Age-Adults,
 8.  Mature-Adults,
 9.  People-in-Hospice-Care,
10.  Friends,
11.  Strangers,
12.  Neighbors,
13.  Enemies,
14.  Different-Cultures,
15.  Different-Religions,
16.  Different-Languages,
17.  Different-Nations,
18.  Different-Economies,
19.  Different-Mythologies,
20.  Different-Value-Systems,
21.  Different-Ideologies,
22.  Different-Collusions,
23.  Different-Communication-Means,
24.  Different-Communities, etc.

     To  the extent that we cannot deal honestly with  the
above  different contexts for Reflexive-Relationships  ---
we  cannot be appropriately objective and/or reflexive  in
our relationships with the "others"  in our  environments;
we  cannot with integrity be in healthy relationships with
the "others".

    Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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