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%RECONCILIATION HEALING DOMINATION EXTREMISM FORCES 070321
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 %GREED ATTACK INDIFFERENCE OBJECTIFICATION ATTACKS 070321

    How  is  it  that it is important  that  we  not  pass
judgement upon other persons unless: "We have first walked
in their shoes for a significant amount of time". ? ? ? ?

    If  we have NOT DONE SO we are not in a good  position
to understand how THEY-EXPERIENCE our own behavior pattern
of AFFIRMING-AND-DEMONSTRATING:

    Domination           Extremism         Unilateralism

    Dishonesty           Pretense          Disintegrations

    Terrorism            Incoherence       Contentiousness

    False-Simplicity     Fool-Hardiness    Alienations

    Excommunications     Exclusivity       Hoarding

    Greed                Attacks           Indifference

    Insensitivity        Objectifications  Grudges

    False-Formalizations Depression        Repression

    After  "We  have  first walked in their  shoes  for  a
significant amount of time";  we are in a good position to
judge  whether  or not their responses to our  pattern  of
behavior   are:    Reasonable,    Appropriate,    Healthy;
Responsible  - - - - - or in other ways  "Understandable".
Reciprocal/Mutual understanding  is not often  experienced
unless  we have had Reciprocal/Mutual experiences of  each
other's context  --- by being for a significant  time  "In
each other's shoes"  ---  and "seeing ourselves as  others
see us."

    Arrange to see yourselves as others daily see you.

    Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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