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%NON-VIOLENT CONFLICT RESOLUTION SUCCESS RECORD NOW 070306
%COMMUNAL PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRATION INTEGRITIES 070306
%VIOLENCE DOMINATION LOSERS WINNERS DESTROYED GOODS 070306
%ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT CONFUSION VICTIMS DISEASES 070306
%SIMPLISTIC IDEALS IDEALISM DOCTRINES MYTHS CONTROL 070306

    The  historic  record is quite clear than Non-Violent-
Methods  of Resolving-Conflicts have contributed far  more
to  Communal-and-Personal Integrations-and-Integrities ---
than have Violent-Methods-of-Resolving-Conflicts.

    It is difficult to make any case for saying that there
has   been  an   occasion  on  which   Violent-Methods-of-
Resolving-Conflicts  have  contributed  in  a  Net-Way  to
Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and-Integrities.

    1.  When Violent-Methods are  used  to  try to resolve
conflicts   ---   The-Losers  clearly  lose  Personal-and-
Communal Integrations-and-Integrities.

    2.  When  Violent-Methods  are  used  The-Winners  are
regularly  the   victims of:   Alienation,   Estrangement,
Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception,      Dishonesty,
Pretense, Arrogance, Self-Righteousness, etc.

    The above observations are valid ---  because it is in
the  nature  of  Violent-Contests  that it  is  the  Most-
Domineering  contestants  who "WIN"  by  being  the  most:
Violent, Domineering, Destructive, Alienative,  Dishonest,
Pretentious, Arrogant, Self-Righteous, etc.

    The above observations are valid ---  because it is in
the  nature  of Violent-Contests ---  that it is the Most-
Domineering contestants who act in ways which generate the
most  Extreme-Tragic-Cases of:  Alienation,    Dishonesty,
Pretense,   Arrogance,  Self-Righteousness,  Estrangement,
Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, etc.

    Agreeing to settle contests by  violent methods --- is
to  agree  to  generate much:    Alienation,   Dishonesty,
Pretense,  Arrogance,   Self-Righteousness,  Estrangement,
Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception, etc.

    Simplistic-forms-of-Idealism  lead to  Tragic-Outcomes
when the Simplistic-Ideals  ARE-FULFILLED;   e.g.,   while
Achieving-Dominance  BY-SACRIFICING:   Shalom,    Honesty,
Authenticity,    Humility,    Integrities,    Hospitality,
Cooperation, Colaboration, Mutual-Understanding, etc.

    Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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