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%ACKNOWLEDGE BEING LOVED RISKS BEFORE INFORMED WELL 070223
 %ABOUT FALSE SEDUCTION ALIENATIVE ADDICTIVE DEVOID 070223
  %CODEPENDENT EVIL RELATIONSHIPS TRUE LOVERS AGAPE 070223
%MUTUAL AGAPE SEXUALITY RESPONSIVE RESPONSIBLE GOOD 070223
 %ABSENCE EMPATHY SYMPATHY SHARING GIVING RECEIVING 070223
%RISK MANAGEMENT CONTROL DOMINATION SYSTEM BENEFITS 070223

     There are usually risks in acknowledging-being-loved;
but  there  are additional  risks  in acknowledging-being-
loved; before being well informed about the risks in being
FALSELY-SEDUCED   ---    into   an   alienative-addictive-
codependent-relationship which  is  DEVOID  of:  True-Love,
True-Agape  and The-Possibilities-Of True-Sexuality  which
is fully: open, honest, mutual and responsive.

     In  the absence of Truly:   Open-and-Honest-Dialogue,
Mutuality,  Humility,  Empathy, Sympathy, Sharing, Giving,
Receiving,      Generosity,   Appreciation,  Thankfulness,
Hospitality   ---   Intimacy  can  be  especially   risky;
especially  when  intimacy  involves  frequent  hints   of
becoming sexually intimate.

     On  the  other  hand,   it  is  also  risky  not   to
acknowledge-being-loved --- in order to avoid all kinds of
risks;   including  avoiding  the  risks  of   being-loved
imperfectly.

     It is risky to yearn for and work for Invulnerability
Anticipated-as-Security; for there is No-Security in Risk-
Free Pseudo-Invulnerability; because it is not truly-real.

     It  is not terribly-risky to  acknowledge-being-loved
when  well informed  and honest about the risks  of  being
Falsely-Seduced    ---   into   an   Alienative-Addictive-
Codependent-Relationship  which  is  Devoid of:  True-Love,
True-Agape and The-Possibilities-Of  True-Sexuality  which
is fully: open, honest, mutual and responsive.

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     True-Lovers  make  no effort to compete to get  ahead
within the box of The-Domination-System-Paradigm.

     True-Lovers are working graciously outside of the box
of The-Domination-System-Paradigm.

     True-Lovers are working to transcend the:  Attitudes,
Assumptions,  Desires,  Expectations,  Demands,  Controls,
etc.  which are characteristic of the Loyal-Supporters and
Competitors   within  the  box  of  The-Domination-System-
Paradigm.

     True-Lovers  make no sense to those who work  to  get
ahead within the box of The-Domination-System-Paradigm.

     True-Lovers look Totally-Incompetent and  Simplistic;
if not Threateningly-Insane and Out-of-Touch-With-Reality,
to  those  who  look  out  from within  the  box  of  The-
Domination-System-Paradigm.

     When  the views of True-Lovers become Truly-Pervasive
in the Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom ---  it will be  clear
that those who looked out with disdain at True-Lovers were
in  fact  trapped within the  Alienative-Paradigm  of  the
Boxed-in-Domination-System-Paradigm  ---   and  could  not
transcend its Boxed-In-Provincial-View of the Whole-Cosmos
of  the Creative-Love which led the  Whole-Cosmos  through
Integrative-Steps into many forms of Integrities which are
Mutually-Compatible  within  the  Many   Gracious-Ways-of-
Shalom Within-Authentic-Love as The-Creative-Spirit.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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