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 %DREANS FANTASIES VISIONS DESIRES WONDERFUL SEXUAL 070214
  %PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS INTIMACIES ABUSIVE FORCES 070214
%UNILATERAL ACTIONS ADDICTIVE CONTROL DOMINATION IT 070214
%INSENSITIVE DEMANDING UNINFORMED INDIFFERENT OTHER 070214
 %IGNORE ABSENT OMISSION EXCLUSION DISHONEST REJECT 070214
%COOPERATION COLABORATION VULNERABILITY SYMPATHY ID 070214

     We may have dreams, fantasies, visions, desires, etc.
about being  involved in some wonderful-relationship  with
another  person or persons.   What actions we may take  to
try to actualize/realize any of those -- will depend upon:

 1.  How insensitive, demanding and/or domineering we are.
 2.  How uninformed and/or indifferent we are about others
 3.  How unaware we are about our-own and others' limits.
 4.  How dishonest we are about known limits we have.
 5.  How honest we are about committments previously made.
 6.  How honest we are about present integrities involved.
 7.  How honest we are about possibilities/impossibilities
 8.  How prone we are to take unilateral actions.
 9.  How prone we are to be cooperative/colLaborative.
10.  How prone we re to try to be Invulnerable==Secure.
11.  How fully we think we can manage our relationships.
12.  How prone we are to being sympathetic/empathetic.
13.  How safe we have been within intimate-relationships.
14.  How well we have survived risky-vulnerabilities.
15.  How sure we are about who is evil and/or good alone.
16.  How truly-secure we are in who we are as we are.
17.  How fearful we are when in the midst of strangers.
18.  How anxious we are when we are not in control.
19.  How honest we are about all human interdependencies.
20.  How honest we are about how interdependent we are.

     We cannot  be involved in  any wonderful-relationship
with another person or persons ---  through any unilateral
and/or domineering efforts.  Be aware and beware!

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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